Im so happy not only one person but two people got back to me so fast before I let it blow up! haha but yes, i think that @specialmom is 100% correct and I never looked at it that way. I am very happy that I'm w/ my boyfriend and feel so proud to have a daughter w/ him because he is the love of my life. I also do appreciate your advice as well @brock2222 because of your prospective as a male lol. it's good to hear your opinion and i do agree that i think since ive been preggers i have been more concentrated about the baby, money, family, my health and just being a new mommy. i guess when it comes down to it im more or less asking him if he's happy, ready, his opinion about the baby, me, etc. before we got pregnant we had really communication and talked about everything under the sun. i will take both of your opinions/advice to heart and try to work out this internal issue and the whole situation w/ my boyfriend :) thank you so much for understanding and not judging! you don't understand how much i appreciate the kind words.
It is clear that your boyfriend is missing the attention that you normally give him. As a red blooded male I look, but definatley do not touch. I think specialmom may have hit the nail on the head this time.
It is hormonal, he is not cheating. Throw a bit of extra attention his way, it will pay dividends.
Hi there! Well, first---- happy pregnancy. This is a special time in your life. I understand how one feels when pregnant and often it is not sexy however, what you may not realize is that many men find pregnant women very attractive. I didn't feel super into sex during pregnancy and was pretty tired afterwards when the baby was born. I did get pregnant a second time right away and then wowie, the exhaustion was front and center. Not to mention it was hard to feel terribly 'hot' when I had baby food on the front of my shirt and a diaper bag over my arm. BUT, my husband took what I had to give and waited until my um pa pa came back (which it did).
Because sweetie, your partner is equally as excited as you about the baby you are carrying. So, have faith in that.
Now, the girl's number. Well, he told you about it. I guess I'd want my husband to say "buzz off" if a woman offered her number but he chose not to. But he DID choose to tell you about it which would make me think he has no intentions. He probably thought it was funny.
Now, don't get mad---- but I do think your hormones are making things feel worse right now. Be proud---- you are carrying this man's child!! that is very special. I did a lot of journaling when I was pregnant and took long walks to cool off. Try not to let your mind 'spin'.
If there are other things happening---- okay. Let us know. But just looking at a girl and having someone provide their number to him---- I'd say you are in the clear and just letting your insecurity take over. All men do look occasionally (and they should try not to be obvious about it--- they should be considerate) and it means NOTHING!
Okay? I hope I helped a little bit. I've been in your shoes and it is all normal but hold your head up high as you're the mama of his baby!