I am a 25 male in California. Until recently, I've never engaged in sexual acts. I would like to discuss two sexual acts I have had just this past week:
1) Handjob from a girl I met on okcupid, which then lead to her giving me oral sex that lasted at most, twenty seconds. All done without a condom.
2) Making out with an exotic dancer during a 30 minute VIP dance, fingering her for ten minutes (she was very wet), grinding my penis against her vagina (no penetration), and receiving multiple handjobs during the night from her. I did not wear a condom at any time.
From my naive understanding of STD's it seems that I am at most risk for herpes, both oral and genital, perhaps also gonorrhea and Chlamydia. I don't think I am at risk for HIV or other STD's but I could be wrong here.
I'd like to know 1) what are my chances of getting an STD from either event, and 2) In how many days/months should I get tested. From my understanding, many STD's don't have many symptoms, so I presume the best way to know is by getting tested.
Thank you to anyone who can answer these questions.