Cold Sore??

[Sclave]

I'm 19, I have mild acne, and I'm sexually active.  I have noticed that I sometimes get acne around my mouth.  It is not painful and usually doesn't scab over or ooze unless i pick at it excessively.  It never lasts long.  I'll pop it and it usually goes away.  Sometimes it will fill back up, but it is mostly solid and not a water liquid.  
Recently though, my lips were very chapped, an occurrence I'm quite used to in the winter.  I never really use chapstick on a regular basis so I just ignored it.  Until, I noticed a very tiny dark dot.  It is so small that you can only see it up close

[gracefromHHP]

There's no easy way over the 'net to tell if this is oral herpes, acne or even a bacterial infection that needs antibiotics for. I recommend since this is new for you you follow up with your doctor to find out what is going on.  

grace

[Sclave]

This spot does not hurt at all beyond the normal feeling of chapped lips.  I have been using chapstick religiously now and it is still there. It has been about 4 days. I just noticed today that I have another small dark spot on the opposite side of the first on my lower lip.  This one does not hurt either.  I have been stressing way too much over this and I need some kind of advice before I ask my mom to take me to the doctor.  I have researched cold sores and now about the risks and truth that it is a strain of herpes.  I am only worried for my family and the girl I'm dating.  I don't want to give them anything.  Please help, I am very desperate.