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Trip to korea

I recently traveled to Seoul, Korea for business, this was my first visit.  As our business rapped up, I was invited to a dinner and Kareoke at a local Business Club inside of a well known Hotel.  Most of the men from what I could tell where professional business men.  As it turns out after dinner and some drinks, some mid 20's Korean girls where brought in to keep us company.   We all endulged in drinks and singing to unnown songs.  After spending several hours of singing, drinking and dancing we where escorted to hotel rooms which where conveniently located above the Bar.  I was intoxicated and in the presence of a very beautiful girl, I did not question where I was going. As we entered the room she gave me a condom, which I quickly dismissed because I was not planning on having intercourse with her, perhaps just some foreplay.   I explored her body as she did mine, lots of kissing and petting, we rubbed our genitals together for about 15 minutes.  In one moment I found myself putting  the head of my penis in her, which seemed like a brief moment, she said no and I backed out.
My question is what are the chances of me having an STD or even aids after encounter like this.  I am worried because I've gone my whole life 43 years, avoiding situations like this.  I dont have any of the symptoms of an STD as far as I can tell, a day after leaving for Europoe I was sick with a fever, cough and sore tonsils, after three days it all cleared up with the tonsils slowly working there way out which cleared up after some tylenol and gollons of water.  I was there for only 4 days, Jet lagged, I over worked myself with very little sleep before my night out.  Could have been food poisoned or just a bad case of wearing myself out.   It's been two weeks since my encounter and I dont have any visible signs of and STD, I am paranoid and have trouble sleeping, I cant stop thinking about what I might have.  I am currently in Europe on the last leg of my trip. But the resources to get checked out our not readily available.  Upon my return to the U.S. I will get completely checked for STD's.  Do you have any advice for my last week in Europe? I apologize if my story is a bit long but I felt I should be clear on all the facts of my experience.


Sincerely,
Speedtrap
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Man this is form 2007
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HIV cases in S. Korea now over 8,000; 92 percent of carriers male

By: PNA/Yonhap
September 25, 2012 8:05 PM
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I know how you feel.
korean girls are beautiful.
dont worry...
they have to get med check ups every 3 months.
korea has one of the lowest hiv ratings. For women i believe it is less than 3000
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Nah, your good, nothing to worry about, just like s990 said, you only put it in for seconds, your fine, just never do that again, because that's a quick way to contract something. But nothing to worry about.
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Unless you had a cut on the tip of your penis or she had visible sores or cuts, I wouldn't worry about it.  The odds are that the same way she said no to you, she says no to others.  That is why she hands out the condoms.  Either that or she already has something, but my guess is that it is more precautionary on her part.  If she already had something, she would probably be less concerned about giving it to others...I know it sounds wrong, but if you were a sex worker, you probably wouldn't care at that point.  That is my take on people in that industry...though I hope I'm wrong.

You probably got sick from all of the plane rides...all those germs with no where to go.
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