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Redness and bump on meatus and ureathra,leaking urine, dull pain in testicles

Recently I have had unprotected sex with 2 girls over the past 3 months. One on January 1st and one on January 18th. One is a girl who I have recently started dating, we have since been using condoms since I noticed these symptoms. On February 29th during my first day of track practice (I'm 17) I was running and started to feel the tip of my penis rubbed raw and looked down and noticed that one side had begun to swell and almost to form a lip. I immediately freaked out and thought I had herpes forsure. I do not have symptoms of herpes but I still cannot let my mind rest. No burning during urination or ejacluation. The "lip" area with a bump on it does not hurt to touch. But almost every time I go to the bathroom I put my penis back in my pants and a little bit of pee begins to dribble out and into my underwear, this never used to happen and is very annoying. I do have discomfort throughout the day just from my Penis rubbing my boxers. Another strange symptom I have is a dull pain in my testicles, there is no swelling and I checked for lumps and found no abnormalities with them. This problem has been killing my pride and my sex drive, making it hard for me to maintain and erection. I have done exsenstive research and it could be anything from prostatis to NGU to a UTI or herpes or hpv (let it be known that I have had the 3 shot vaccine) finally, I noticed today in school it was uncomfortable to sit down, kind of like a symptom prostatis. I have been applying monistat 3 on the area due to me suspecting it could be a yeast infection and I think it has been helping with the strange sensation I am feeling in my peehole and surround area. I am about to go on vacation for spring break and therefore I will not be able to get tested for another week, but I plan on it first thing when I get home. I gave my girl a few kisses when I had a scabbed over cold sore and then she went down on me, could I have given myself HSV-1 genitally? Id like to think not because it's been there for longer than 2 weeks and urine passes over the bump with no burning. I've had it orally since I was a kid in elementary. Please help me with identifying this, I'm very freaked out. I'm a hypochondriac and this is on my mind from the minute I wake up till I go to bed. Ill be happy to answer anymore questions.

Let it be noted aswell that I have scoured the Internet and found that many other men have found symptoms like these that were not related to STDs and have found no cure to what they were. There urologist or Doctor simply told them not to worry and let it go away on its own with maybe the help of some antibiotics. I will not rest until this is sorted out. Once again I have not been tested.

Thanks, will  
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Please, any news? I have EXACTLY the same symptoms, no more than these, and I am desperate 8 weeks after I received unprotected oral sex.
That was the only risk I took but the symptoms started 10 days after this.
I suspect that it could be HSV-1 as well, any idea? THANK YOU
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You should really start your own thread so I can address your questions specifically, but have you seen a doctor?

You can start your own thread by clicking/tapping here - https://www.medhelp.org/posts/new_question?forum_id=98
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Sorry for multiple comments, first time using this on my phone and not going well!

I wanted to ask if you found out what this was and if you are now free from it, as this sounds exactly like what I have.
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away?
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Forgive me but I'll answer in bullet form addressing your issues, hopefully you'll find this logical.
- you already have HSV1 and for males this means essentially zero risk of a genital HSV1 infection (from yourself or anyone else); HSV2 genitally is therefore the only practical risk of these types
- your symptoms are not suggestive of herpes genitally
- having had unprotected sex you must obtain full panel testing ( have HIV DUO, gon, chlam, trich now and then at 12 weeks in mid April have syph, Hep A/B/C, IgG HSV1 & HSV2)
- I agree that likely the inflammation will go away of its own accord
- other symptoms may be anxiety related
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Hi, this sounds exactly like what I'm going through, did you find out what it was? Do you still have the problem or has it gone away?
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