Oral sex HIV risk

[Anxiousguy28]

Hello there, I went to a sauna cause I wanted to experience sucking ****, I went very high on MDM and drunk and I blow quiet a few guys without condom, there was no penetration without condom and I am very scared I think None cum on my mouth but I dont know, this happened like 8 months ago after 3 or 4 months I got high again and went and I suck **** without condoms, but only for a few minutes and no cum on my mouth, is It possible then that the First time I got syphillis and then I got hiv? I had no symptoms and my girlfriend neither, she went to do a test for her vagina recently and told her It was all good without clamidya and ghonorrea but what if the worst happened and I transfered her syphillis and HIV? I mean by now or even before i should have had the sores or wounds in the mouth but I dont have It i got nothing but a tiny cold sore on the lip i just got from her by kissing. I'm super worried with all these you may have all the worst and may dont know It? I mean some symptoms should have been going on for her and I no?

Im super scared I passed onto my gf this is a nightmxre

I just wanted to know what It feels like and now I cant do nothing i am in another country and cant do tests and feel that the worst is gonna happen

[auntiejessi]

Your HIV risk - none - has already been addressed in the HIV forum, so I'm not going into that again.

You mention syphilis, which is a slight possibility. You can go get a simple blood test and find out if you have it.

It's not likely, and you have none of the symptoms.

Why can't you test where you are? Just find a clinic and go test. The chances of you having syphilis are very low, and getting a negative test will ease your mind.

Also, please find a counselor or a doctor and talk to them about your anxiety. That's a huge problem for you.

[auntiejessi]

And you have to stop posting everywhere. Your questions have been answered already.

Really, you need to talk to someone about your anxiety. It's a big problem for you.

[Anxiousguy28]

Alright, so if she had a vagina test and It was all good but is It possibilities that I passed her asintomatic syphillis with my HIV ?

[Anxiousguy28]

It was like a quick vagina test with the kind of PCR stick

[auntiejessi]

You didn't pass on HIV because you had no risk for it. You've already been told that several times.

I don't know what kind of testing she had done - a "vagina test" could mean a lot of things. It doesn't test for syphilis, though. A syphilis test is a blood test.

[auntiejessi]

And why did you post again? I'm answering you. You do not need to create any other posts.

[Anxiousguy28]

Alright, sorry.

Last question, according to your experience, from 8 months ago with the oral thing I should have had symptoms and her also by now no? In which stage should I be at this point? as her? I only had penetration sex with her, or is It possible that I got Lucky and got nothing from that awfull experience?

[auntiejessi]

Yes, you both would have had symptoms. Since you gave oral sex, you'd have a sore in your mouth.

If you gave her oral sex, you could transmit it that way.

After, several weeks later, you'd get a rash, This would not be missed. It covers a large part of your body usually.

It's not luck that you didn't get it - syphilis isn't as common as other STDs, and oral sex is lower risk than vaginal or anal sex.

So now, stop getting drunk, stop getting high, and talk to someone about your anxiety.

Remember that guilt doesn't equal risk.

[Anxiousguy28]

Thank you very much! Just there is so much info out there that It seeams everything is not detectable until is too late..... And that terrifyes me. But I Guess that after so Many months and that she got tested negative for ghonorrea and clamidia we are good

[auntiejessi]

Detectable until after you've passed it? Depends on if you've had sex with someone after you get it.

You don't seem to have gotten syphilis, and you had no risk for HIV.

You can move on.

[Kirstie_MHModerator]

Since there isn't any additional info our members can add regarding this incident, and your risks, we're going to close this thread. We hope you are able to move forward with your life.

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