Going to visit an independent escort

[DG1220]

Hi, I'm going to an escort to lose my virginity. I have cancelled due to a pain in my throat and a minor cut on the inside side of my cheek. I intend to go tomorrow if anything. My question is, will performing cunnilingus and on her and kissing her with a sore throat and a minor cut on the inside of my cheek put me at a higher risk for STI's as opposed to the near zero risk without aforementioned problems? Spare the morals and ethics- was molested for a long time as a child and most likely due to this have been unable to get a 'normal' sexual partner. So I look to this as helping me banish my fears of what happened when I was younger and to be able to pursue a normal relationship without the fears I hold in my heart. (Main one being that I am a rapist or pervert for wanting to do things of a sexual nature with a woman.)

[alexsp87]

Kissing is not a risk regardless sore throat or cuts. Oral sex to a woman is very low risk. Getting a STD that way would be very difficult, but not impossible. Sorry if my first post sounds rude, it wasn't my intention.

[DG1220]

Thanks for the reply! So even with the sore throat and minor cut I'm safe? Yea, I know, but I've seen ppl in General get torn to shreds over their personal choices elsewhere- not here obv

[alexsp87]

Kissing is not a risk for STD's and unprotected cunnilingus is very low to no risk. This is not a forum for ethics nor opinions about people's lifes, you didn't have to justify your acts.