Nongonnococal Urethitis is a *****. Seems more often then not fluroquinonones are needed due to Macrolide resistance emerging due to people not abstaining from sex while on also not taking antibiotics long enough this is in part a failure on the prescribers part from doing due diligence.
It took you two years to go get tested? No offense, but I'm not familiar with that kind of fear.
The longest I would continue to feel afraid is the longest I would need to wait to be 99% sure a negative on an STD detection test was accurate.
How are you doing now, I jsut read your post but I see this was years ago! My life had been mental and emotional turmoil since I was sexually assulted last year and my body has not felt right since. What do you do when you have symptoms but no tests can confirm what’s going on ? And all my doctors think it’s in my head! I’ve even through it’s possible it’s just the anxiety but the symptoms -discharge itching and burning are bad. Even 8 months on. I was tested high risk hpv. The only other person I been with in six years besides the assult-my partner- is so supportive and loved me stilll even knowing I was paranoid about potential of getting warts and he still with me. But that gives me anxiety too as I feel I’m now diseasing him:( the man I love and it’s not fair. New growths have now popped up inside my vagina and went to sexual health clinic again right away-they assures they are vagina papules.. but why? Stress? What are these things. I’m seeing a derm in a month anyway to get a proper diagnosis and to see if they are warts or not. I guess the answer is learning to live with whatever we have. As you said.. and living..not worrying. Since assult my life literally is not even my life, it’s gone. I want to get it back it’s horrivle
This has been making me feel so much better every time I read it . For the past 5 months I’ve been feeling like you once did , i have anxiety attacks every time i think about having an std , i don’t even go out anymore because im always depressed & I’m scared to go to the doctor and find out I have an std because my mom would kill me ....but every time I read this paragraph it helps me so much
A fast question I am scared my girlfriend will leave mee because i may have an std what do I do?
Well that's up to you. Sometimes you can get used to fear and it will become a part of you personality. Hope you are strong enough and continue your life as if nothing has happened. That way I am sure you would be happier and you could once again start enjoying the beautiful gift called life. After taking all the tests it's all up to you to decide whether you are worthy of it. As you know doctors could only tell you whether you are healthy or not, however they cannot force you to believe that you are OK. Further more, even if it does seem "hard" to believe, they are right if they tell you that you are OK!!! So stop tormenting your heart and your soul and just ENJOY LIFE!!!
Your statement inspires me a lot. I was also in the situation that I feared and had no courage to take a test. Finally I decided to take tests and I didn't have severe desease.Anyway sometimes I still can't convince myself completely that I am 100% safe.Sometimes the fear hurts me. I think I probably need to take a test again and again until it completely eases my mind although I have to face the fear again..
I hope I could overcome my own fear too.
Hello,
After reading your post I feel much better. I have posted to this forum before about herpes. I went to the doctoc and the test came back pos for one and two. I still don't shows any signs and I had been wanting to go back and get another test, but never did it. I was feeling so down when the test came back and the doctor they just want to give you some pill and say take these. I still have not told anyone because everytime they see the people on tv talking about herpes, they seem to think the people are carzy and they also say things like I would not be on tv telling people i have herpes. After reading your post i am going to a different doctor for a test. Thanks for making me feel better.
You are right!!! Living with Herpes isn't scary or difficult... There are thousands of people who aren't aware that they are infected. There are also millions of people that are aware that they are infected and have live lives. 50% or 60% of the people in USA are infected with HSV 1(my girlfriend has it too). So you would be a fool if you think that something terrible has happened to you. Every now and then we face some challenges in our life, you should be lucky that you have came against an easier one... It will be a shame if you don't overcome it!
I just wanted to say thank you for posting this, it has made me feel so much better. I just found out today I tested positive for herpes (not sure which type yet) but I have been in a funk since I last spoke to my doctor. I know this is incurable but I also know it could have been a lot worse. I know some people have it worse than me and I pray for them. I know I can continue to live my life and do the things that I have been doing but some how I think it will still affect me some mentally. I just pray that I can continue to live my life and not let this overpower and consume me into the thought of not living happily.
Your post couldn't be more correct, welleducated! I too have been misarable wondering and examining everything different with my body deathly afraid it was an STD. It was draining both mentally and physically as well. LAst Thursday, at 2 am, I decided that was it and ordered a test online. I went in the next day and gave my samples. I was a nervous wreak for all of Friday and Saturday, only calming down a little bit after reading this site. The people here are knowledegable and well thought-out. Not to say people don't do stupid and risky things, but the majority of people are much safer than they imagine. Anyhow, this morning I called to get my results...negative for everything tested. Really, the most important thing to do is to act safe, and get *tested* when you're unsure. That's the only way you can be 100% sure you're not infected. Good luck and God bless everyone....
Truer words never spoken man. I've been in hell for 6 months after a mistake made while on an all inclusive resort. Biggest worry is herpes right now, had a bit of worry with HIV even though I know it isn't true it's been hard to let go. I'm in a part of Canada where there is no blood testing so I have to go by a negative culture and reassurance from multiple visual inspections but I'm still not convinved.
I guess the point is, even if I do have Herpes it could be a hell of alot worse and I can still do all the things I love.