Had Protected Sex with a Stripper

[ImAnIdiot777]

So I was in Cabo and was drunk at a strip club. I ended up making out with a stripper and then it escalated to her giving me oral with a condom on, and we had sex with a condom on. At one point, that I completely regret, I went down on her for a lick on the top part of her vagina before I stopped myself. I don't remember seeing anything that I visually would worry about and she didn't stop me. Also, to make matters worse, after I finished in her and pulled out, the condom was not on me. I don't know if it slipped off upon pull out or before.

What should I get tested for and when? What are my risks? What should I keep an eye out for? And how do I make myself not constantly think about it and make myself feel sick? I constantly think every twitch and tingle is the end of my life as I know it. I am also in a committed relationship. What are her risks? Should I tell her? Help! Thank you.

[Life360_Dave]

Hi, the oral was zero risk using the condom and you licking her vagina could be a risk for herpes and syphilis and if your not sure your penis was exposed inside of her with the condom coming off, if you were not in a committed relationship i would suggest to wait a week to see if you develop and penis white puss discharge , burning while urinating or urethra itching but since you have a partner then you should test for all stds at the proper window period for your partners protection. test as below:
1. Gono and chlamydia---7 days post exposure
2. syphilis---6 weeks
3. herpes 3 months
4. HIV--28 days with the duo test.
Just stay calm and im sure all is ok. You made a mistake so just bide your time and test for her protection. And view this waiting time as a recompense for your mistaken adventure.
Or, if you have a family doctor talk to him about this situation.

[ImAnIdiot777]

Thank you for the response. Will wait and see but will schedule an appointment for tests in the meantime. Fingers crossed. Will take this time to think long and hard about my dumb decisions.

[Life360_Dave]

you dont need to keep your fingers crossed and am almost sure the condom was on when you pulled out its just testing to protect your partner thats all.

[ImAnIdiot777]

Clear for gano and clamydia a few weeks back. Just got retested on Monday (46 days after exposure) to check back for Syphilis and HIV. No symptoms so far. Should get results by tomorrow. In regards to herpes, my doctor says they don’t test unless there’s signs. Should I just ask to be tested for peace of mind? Also, I heard HIV can not show for 3 months. Should I get re-tested for HIV at the 3 month mark? Or are their tests where you don’t need to wait as long? Thanks.