6 days ago I visited an erotic massage parlor. In the massage the female provider rubbed/grinded the exterior of her bare vagina along my shaft. This lasted 1-2 minutes. Definitely no penetration though I believe her vaginal fluids naturally came into contact with the skin on my shaft.
I am in a monogamous relationship and immediately spiraled. I have never done something like this.
When she left the room minutes later, I grabbed some disinfecting alcohol spray and sprayed the contacted area and rubbed it in.
In the car not long after I wiped my penis with a Clorox bleach wipe, including lightly on the tip of my penis and then wiped all away with a wet cloth.
Ever since then the tip of my penis has felt a little irritated. No pain when I pee but it just feels generally irritated and really just near the tip. I assume this is from the strong chemicals I was using which I realize was stupid. I imagine I wouldn’t feel irritation right away from an STI? That would come after an incubation period? No other discernible symptoms of any kind.
I would like to understand my general risks of STI infection and also would like to understand what I should do in regard to the irritation at the head of my penis.