Oral Sex with a CSW

[harryp0tter]

Hi, I am in a country where having oral sex etc and sex with condoms with very common. I want to try oral sex. I dont intent to have vaginal or anal sex at all. Can you tell me if I dont know the status of the CSW and I want to have following things with her, am I at any risk of STD?

1) Kissing on mouth
2) Kissing breasts
2) Cunnilingus
3) The girl kissing my penis
4) Body to body massage using nuru gel

If for example the girl has some STD, something on her body would have rashed etc right? I have seen photos of girls and they have crystal clear skin. I really want to try this oral sex thing once.

How to know by looking at person if she has any STD?

Waiting.

[uomeasmile]

Hello! You have lots of questions which is a good thing. The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention has a great website with facts about STDs, how they are spread, and how to protect yourself. I think it would be a great idea for you to look over the site: https://www.cdc.gov/std/healthcomm/stdfact-stdriskandoralsex.htm

[harryp0tter]

Who is at more risk of getting STD. The one giving oral sex or the one getting the oral sex?

If a girl has some STD, will she transmit STD if she is giving blowjob to boy or boy will get it if the boy is licking her vagina?

[biology2017]

Both can transmit stds

[harryp0tter]

If I use condom for oral sex (Girl sucking me), Condom you say will help me get any STD right?

What about if I want to taste and lick girl's vagina? Dental dams are not easily available. Any other way to protect myself from STD and have fun?

Unless there is direct contact of mouth with genital, there is no way to get STD right?

[biology2017]

1) Yes stds needs direct contact.
2) the safest way would be if the girl is negative for stds.

[auntiejessi]

Assuming she has some STD (all of this is true of anyone you have a sexual encounter with, not just CSWs) -

1) Kissing on mouth - no risk for an STD, but she might have oral herpes which you might get if you don't already have it. This would be herpes type 1.  

2) Kissing breasts - no risk for anything

2) Cunnilingus - slight risk for gonorrhea

3) The girl kissing my penis - just lightly kissing - no risk; giving you actual oral sex - if she has oral gonorrhea or oral herpes, you could get these genitally (if herpes is transmitted this way, you would get genital herpes type 1). If you already have herpes type 1 (cold sores, fever blisters), then unless she has an outbreak, you can't get it genitally.

4) Body to body massage using nuru gel - no risk for an STD

Unless someone has physical symptoms you can see (sores, discharge), you can't tell if someone has an STD. Using condoms is a great way to protect yourself, and since you don't plan on having actual intercourse, your chances are much lower. Plan on her using a condom for oral, and you should be fine. If she has signs of any symptoms, then gently decline to have sexual contact with her.

Good for you for getting info first. :)

[harryp0tter]

1) Kissing on mouth: How to see and know is she has oral herpes? Does it show by sores in her mouth? I want to try kissing and tongue too.

2) Kissing Breasts: Great that there is no risk

3) Cunnilingus: You say there is slight risk of gonorrhea. How to see her pusssy and know she has gonorrhea? Can I see an tell?

4) The girl kissing my penis. I want actual oral sex. How to know if the girl has  oral gonorrhea or oral herpes? Can i see and find out without asking her? I dont have herpes type 1.

5) Body to Body massage: Are you sure there is no STD transfer using just skin to skin contact?

Please tell me how to see sign of symptoms on the CSW. In my country I dont have access to such activities and want to try it here. I have taken erotic massage last year but this is first time oral sex.

[biology2017]

Unfortunately, you might be unable to tell if someone have stds. Sometimes, they do not have symptoms.