Protected vaginal sex and frottage

[Mag2803]

I had protected vaginal sex for 2-3 minutes and developed tingling sensation in my testes and penis and discomfort in my penis for 4 months and it disappeared. A year later it came back with prostatitis ( pain after ejaculation, dull stinging pain after urinating and pain in lower pelvic, lower abdomen and back. I didnt check the condom because i was anxious and left the apartment. Some people said that there condom have broke and they knew about it after the fact. Is prostatitis related to any std. i haven’t got any discharge or painful urination or lesions beside little redness underneath my penis shaft beside the pubic area.
- Frottage: she was on top of me placing my penis laying on pubic area and started grinding for a minute quiet heavy. I dont think i penetrated her. She is a married women with a youngest kid 4 years old. She said she just rubbed her clit on my penis to make her cum and she said i didn’t penetrate her.
- fingering with cut under my fingernails from clipping my nails too short. Tiny blood comes out after applying pressure. And my proximal nail fold and area beside my fingernails is not good. I fingered alot of women. Is there a risk?

[Sara_MHModerator]

We're sorry you are so anxious but we have fully answered your question.

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[Mag2803]

Im anxious about what if the condom failed and i didn’t know because i was anxious about having sex itself. It was my first sexual activity in my life.

[Mag2803]

Sorry i wrote the last comment and haven’t seen your reply.

[Mag2803]

Is there any risk of std from brief protected sex, my condom didn’t break wide open so it’s obviously intact. I have no idea why i had these symptoms

[Mag2803]

My doctor doesn’t think it’s prostatitis but he gave me the antibiotic after i asked him too. Probably think its anxiety focused prostatitis.
1. Why i am having these tingling and discomfort in penis 2 days after sex since it was protected.
2. What about frottage and fingering? Any risk of std?

[auntiejessi]

If you had a risk for an STD, I'd have told you. You had no risk from the sex, from the fingering, or the frottage.

Tingling is not really a symptom of an STD. It's usually anxiety. Vague discomfort is, too.

I've never heard of anxiety focused prostatitis, but I'm sure it exists. I'm not sure what you are so anxious about - you had protected sex - but you had no risk.

If you are feeling guilty about something - she was married, maybe you're married or in a committed relationship, or something else - remember that guilt doesn't equal risk.

If you can't let go of this, it's time to see a mental health professional. It's been a year.

[auntiejessi]

No, there is no risk here for prostatitis, and given that you didn't get the infection for a year, it's not likely to be related.

Prostatitis can be caused by an STI, but can also be caused by other things. If you are concerned about STIs, ask your doctor to test you if you are not already on antibiotics.