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I want to know my risks after I hooked up with someone new
I’m a girl, I my ex and I broke up a couple months ago and I started seeing someone new. Yesterday i hooked up with the new guy friend who I’ve hooked up with before in the pst month when we met (we only did handjobs and fingering in the vagina, and kissing)
Last night we were drinking and he started fingering me slowly, it then turned into rough fingering and he put his other finger in my anus and started doing it hard for a while. I didn’t feel any pain.
We than agreed to have anal sex and I told him to wear a condom.
After about 4 minutes of anal sex I stopped him because he was going a bit too rough and I felt like my anus wasn’t very lubricated, when I went to the bathroom to clean up, I saw some blood when I wiped.
- I feel like I’ve made a mistake with even letting him have anal with me and now I’m paranoid that I can get some STDs or hiv.
- I really regret this because I’m not fully over my ex and it all gives me anxiety.
I miss my ex and I want to try to make it work with him again in the near future.
Please help! I’m a very paranoid person and I don’t know how to calm my nerves.
Last night we were drinking and he started fingering me slowly, it then turned into rough fingering and he put his other finger in my anus and started doing it hard for a while. I didn’t feel any pain.
We than agreed to have anal sex and I told him to wear a condom.
After about 4 minutes of anal sex I stopped him because he was going a bit too rough and I felt like my anus wasn’t very lubricated, when I went to the bathroom to clean up, I saw some blood when I wiped.
- I feel like I’ve made a mistake with even letting him have anal with me and now I’m paranoid that I can get some STDs or hiv.
- I really regret this because I’m not fully over my ex and it all gives me anxiety.
I miss my ex and I want to try to make it work with him again in the near future.
Please help! I’m a very paranoid person and I don’t know how to calm my nerves.
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