If you have symptoms, you need to get tested, obviously.
It's hard to comment on her test results without knowing what they were for, and without knowing everything she was tested for.
If you're in the US, google your county and health department. Most of them have STI clinics. For example, if you live in Chicago, google Cook County Health Department or Cook County STI testing or STI clinic.
If you're in a bigger city, you can even google the city name and STI clinic.
You can also try Planned Parenthood. They test men, too. You can self-pay at all of them.
All that said, make sure you are drinking plenty of water, avoid caffeine and alcohol, as both of those are very irritating to the bladder and urethra.
Also, about 10 days after the encounter, I felt fine and had unprotected sex with my wife as well as gave her unprotected vaginal oral sex. Within a week, my throat was really sore and had red/white spots in the back of it. No fever, no swollen lymph nodes, and no real flu-like symptoms, although I did feel a little “sick”. I’m hoping it’s just a viral, unrelated issue. I do have multiple smaller kids that are always fighting some kind of sickness.
The sore throat is starting to dissipate. Still no discharge out of my penis and no swollen urethra and no swollen nodes in my pelvic region. What are the chances I have could have given her something through the unprotected vaginal
Sex and then infected my throat when I gave her oral?
Any answers would be greatly appreciated as I’m freaking out. Thank you!