New girlfriend

[ricknmorty]

I recently just got engaged with sexual contact with my new girlfriend. I know her but not really that deep and my friends told me she had stds multiple times before. I didnt have a condom so avoided oral, vaginal and anal sex. She also had her pants on during all this so im sure there was no genitals of hers involved. She did put her hand under my pants and stimulated my penis with her hands using some kind oil. She also took her top off and i sucked her nipples for about 30 secs and she put oil on her breasts and rubbed my penis against her breasts. I also kissed her neck a couple of times. Is there any risk?

[auntiejessi]

First, what a vicious, ugly rumor for your friends to be spreading about someone. They have no idea if there is any truth to it, and given that it's probably not true (even in part), it's ugly to spread such things.

Even if she had every STD possible, nothing you did with her is any risk at all.

Why not have a talk with her about STDs and testing? You could just get tested together - lots of couples do - and find out what either of you may have that might affect the other. Her past is really not your business, but if she has anything currently, you should know that. She should also know if you have anything currently.