Omg im freaking out please help

[Rickys411]

Im 19 and yesterday on my birthday some friends got me a a backpage girl. This was the biggest mistake of my life. She gave me a blow job and then we had anal sex. I wore a condom the whole time but im freaking out that im going to catch an std. The condom didnt tear but im feeaking out. Can someone please tell me what i should do. I cant believe i hooked up with a prostitute. Please help...

[Rickys411]

Thank you both for your input and advise. My testicles may have touched her genital area but i didnt rub the area. I guess just waych for symptoms for the next week and if nothing move on?

[Life360_Dave]

Hi using a condom you can rule out std,s like gono, chlamydia, HIV and NGU,s and if your genital area did not make rubbing contact with hers then its zero for all stds. If your genital area make rubbing contact its very low risk for herpes and syphilis and if she did not have any genital sores its zero for syphilis and close to zero for herpes.

[Rickys411]

How long do i need to waot to get tested. I was up all night reading articles online and im really worried and scared now

[worried7481]

Um don't do that. Dr Google can scare the **** out of you and cause so much unneeded anxiety. I've learned that fro experience. Its OK to check but don't obsess! That kind of stress will make you sick. If I were you I would get tested in a week, no sex before then, or sooner if you get weird discharge or burning pee or stink. Then wait a month then test again.

[Rickys411]

So in the senerio am i at really high risk?

[worried7481]

You used a condom. So no not really really high risk. I would consider it more high risk if you didn't wear one. So that's a good thing. Don't let it worry you. Just get tested and move on. It will be ok

[worried7481]

Calm down! and don't do it again! Its good you wore a condom and that will probably protect you. Just look out for sores and bad smells and weird discharge for the next couple of weeks. Get tested for the whole list of STD's at the Dr in a couple of weeks. And don't do it again. It's good that your feeling scared and sick about what you did! It means you have a conscious and your prbly a good person! Trust me I made mistakes a long time ago and felt like crap afterward as well. It will be ok. You are more than likely safe, its a good thing you wore a condom.  

[worried7481]

oh ya and forgive yourself! thats the most important thing! We all make mistakes! If you pray, pray about it. Regardless FORGIVE YOURSELF AND MOVE ON! Everything will be ok for you.