Sorry - it was a long weekend in the US, and I was away from the computer.
You need to go to your doctor or an STD clinic and get tested for gonorrhea and NGU. You can test for those now. Your symptoms are indeed really vague, like Iain79 says, and I'd doubt it's epidimytitis from this encounter. Other things cause that, though, so just go get checked.
If the condom didn't break or come off, you don't have a risk for chlamydia, but gonorrhea and chlamydia tests are most often run together, so if they test for both, it's fine.
I also absolutely, totally agree with Iain79 when he says that if this happens every time, you should fully protect yourself. Either it's anxiety, or you are really prone to NGU.
Of course, you could also abstain from having partners outside your relationship. No moral judgement here, but every time you do this, you risk condom failure, and could be putting your girlfriend at risk.
If you have an infection - NGU, gonorrhea, whatever - your girlfriend should be treated. It's for her sake, and so you won't continue to pass this back and forth. Untreated infections in women can cause serious problems with lifelong complications. Don't be that guy.
So just go get checked.
And another thing can I go ahead and get tested for chlamydia? The incident took place last Thursday .. or I’s it to early ?
Oral sex exposes you to gonorrhea, syphilis and herpes. You should test for those one, with or without symptoms.
-3 weeks after the exposure, for gonorrhea.
-6 weeks after the exposure, for syphilis.
-3 months after the exposure, for herpes.
All the best.
I just want to know if NGU is caught from oral mouth bacteria and I have sex with my girlfriend without protection will she get anything .. this NGU is so confusing
@auntiejessi Good morning could you please help me out with some info on my situation please . My girlfriend will be back today
Hi
I'm not one to judge as I've been in a very similar situation myself. But, if this happens EVERY time then maybe you should protect yourself
That aside, whilst oral sex is, for the most part, relatively safe there are some risks, the main one being NGU. And a quick look on this site will tell you that there is a lot of contradictory and confusing information out there. The likelihood is that after 2 days your symptoms are not anything to do with an infection.
Can normal mouth bacteria cause NGU? It's certainly a possibility but it's not a proven thing. The doctors who used to post on this forum certainly believed it could happen, but they were always careful to state that is was 'probable'. As you probably know yourself there are a few types of bacteria that can cause NGU that may be able to be passed to your regular partner. In the event that there is something causing your symptoms then the only way to know for sure is to be tested. Do you have clinics where you are that can test for NGU? What part of the world are you in?
All the best