A quick bit of background am a 45 year old divorced man and 6 months ago met a woman who i clicked with. Before we slept together we both went and had full STI panel tests for chlamydia, ghonorrea, syphillis, HIV via urine sample and blood test. All came negative for both of us. two weeks ago we had an awful argument and we both said stupid things and 'split up' so to speak.
Fast forward to friday night just gone and i was out with a colleague who I've known for some time. we had too much to drink ended up back at her place where she performed oral sex on me to completion and i used my fingers on her and also performed oral on just her clitoris for a short amount of time. After, we both agreed it was stupid and shouldn't have happened. Now heres the thing...she was in a three month relationship previously with a swinger who had a lot of sexual partners.
Anyway my girlfriend calls saturday morning and wants to rekindle. I'm now absolutely worried sick ive picked up an STI from my colleague! So i call her yesterday (that was an interesting convo) and she tells me after she split up with the promiscuous swinger guy (which by the way was always protected sex with a condom but oral was unprotected) she got a full sti check again for chlamidya, ghonorrea, syphillis and HIV etc six weeks after they split up and all was negative...she even sent me a pic of the text. she has had one normal sexual partner ( not a swinger!) since she was tested, they had sex three times and it didnt work out. She has no symptoms of anything but I am convinced she gas given me something by her performing oral on me or me performing oral on her! Maybe she got oral HPV or Oral chlamidya or ghonnorea from the swinger guy and has passed it onto me via unprotected oral. I somehow manage to have convinced myself she has given me something. :(