A friend who is in desperate need of an answer fast!

[Snowmkhr89]

My roommate just had sex for the first time with her boyfriend.  He has been having sex for a couple years. A few weeks back, he used her vibrator to pleasure her, and she bleed a little bit. Then, when they had actually had sex, they stopped and came looking for me. He pulled out of her just to make sure the condom stayed on and he went back in and he had gone too hard he said it felt like he hit bone, and she said it hurt.  Her labia is torn, its a small tear but it looks deep. I told her to see a doctor, but i was wondering if anything else is possible in the mean time...they are both really scared and i dont know how to say anything, or even what to say.  Im doing my best, researching and asking questions.

[katarina777]

PS: Also look at the 'help' post a few comments down.

[katarina777]

I really don't think it's anything serious, even if I totally understand how worried they are. This was her first time, right? It's normal to bleed even if not every woman does the first time. it's normal to hurt as well, even if again no every woman is the same. It's normal for something to rip, and he most likely hit against her cervix, or maybe their hips hit together, or something as well.

Again, really don't worry too much. Wait to see a doctor, and maybe if it's not better in a day, or so. (of course I am not advising against it, just also not for it)

Hope this helps a little,

KAT

[AnnaE]

See if there us a doc i=on the ob/gyn forum. Even a nusrse would help. I think y=she could get checked my an MD tomorrow, but I am not in the medical field. Are you near a univ that has a nurse's line? Try th\e forum. If you know where you can phone, I would do that first.

[Snowmkhr89]

She is no longer bleeding, i helped her clean up.  there is no pain, and she is walking and sitting cross legged very fine now, it is just worrying me.

[AnnaE]

She needs to see a doc. Is she bleeding? I am reluctant to say what else she should do. How is her pain? If she is bleeding and in pain, she should go right now.