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Anal "lips"???
Not really sure where to ask this...
I'm 30 and recently ive been in touch with a woman i met recently, who's 40. we've slept together a couple times now and the second time, we performed a 69 with her on top. while i was down there, i noticed her anal rim (terminology?) had 'flaps', very much like small vaginal lips. thats really a good way to descibe them. they were maybe around 1/2cm? now i've never seen that before. i didnt say anything just thought it was weird and didnt want to make her self conscious or embarrassed from asking at the time.
is this normal at all? can a woman have 'lips' there?
I'm 30 and recently ive been in touch with a woman i met recently, who's 40. we've slept together a couple times now and the second time, we performed a 69 with her on top. while i was down there, i noticed her anal rim (terminology?) had 'flaps', very much like small vaginal lips. thats really a good way to descibe them. they were maybe around 1/2cm? now i've never seen that before. i didnt say anything just thought it was weird and didnt want to make her self conscious or embarrassed from asking at the time.
is this normal at all? can a woman have 'lips' there?
I had a guy tell me once my ******* had ***** lips. It’s flaps of skin caused by pressure during child birth and what is left once the hemorrhoids have healed.
This condition is most likely 'anal skin tags'. they are generally harmless. Often a result of or associated with other rectal problems. if they are itchy/painful you should seek medical help.
While I can't say it's impossible to have lips in that location, I'm guessing that a more likely explanation is that she has some prolapse in that area which can give an appearance of a lip, but really isn't.
thanks for the replies.
hemorroids hmm... from all the google images i can find, nothing seems to look like it. my first thought too, was maybe she'd had alot anal in the past, but not sure that can happen from that. my friend mentioned warts(!?) but again, no pics that i've found online resemble those at all =/ it was continuous and thin, smooth, looked rather natural *shrugs*
just how would i bring it up to her, or should i? am i thinking about this too much?
hemorroids hmm... from all the google images i can find, nothing seems to look like it. my first thought too, was maybe she'd had alot anal in the past, but not sure that can happen from that. my friend mentioned warts(!?) but again, no pics that i've found online resemble those at all =/ it was continuous and thin, smooth, looked rather natural *shrugs*
just how would i bring it up to her, or should i? am i thinking about this too much?
She might have a hemrhoid (?) or maybe she has had anal sex a lot in the past.... Not really sure though. Sorry I cannot be of more help... let me know if you find out
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