He's saying, he doesn't want to be in a romance with you. He doesn't want a romantic relationship with you. He doesn't want you to introduce him to others as your boyfriend. He's saying you look like boobs and a vagina to him and as a result he would like to have sex with you. He is not saying that he loves you, not even saying that you are special to him. He is not saying that he lies awake thinking about what might make you happy. Because you took his request for sex seriously he's saying great, no strings attached then, let me screw you. Not a good thing, not a good choice to give the gift of one's virginity.
Only have sex (especially the first time) with someone who loves you, and is proud to be introduced as your boyfriend, and cares about your heart and your safety and your interests.
Good luck, sweetheart. He is not the guy, he is being a pig.
Whatever you do - don't cave in and have sex with him - it will seriously effect you and the way you think about yourself!!
Just think about it - you are only a virgin once, and if you want to love and cherish the person you share your body with, then think about it! and don't go and get drunk and impaired and throw it away!!
Think about how you'd feel afterward :)