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cant get my bf to want to have sex
this is embarrassing to be posting but i have tried everything
i have been with the same guy for a little over 2 years at first we would do it all the same non stop. now we barely do it twice and week. im dying im a very sexual person and he knows it. i have talked to him about it. he is always to tired. i know he is not cheating he isnt the type. i dont understand why a guy wouldnt want to. like im fun and i do not suck in bed. and we do not do the same things in bed and i do do things to just him. i just dont get it. i am getting bored and frustrated trying to get him to do it. now its like i want to give up. could he really be tired? i dont know please help...
i have been with the same guy for a little over 2 years at first we would do it all the same non stop. now we barely do it twice and week. im dying im a very sexual person and he knows it. i have talked to him about it. he is always to tired. i know he is not cheating he isnt the type. i dont understand why a guy wouldnt want to. like im fun and i do not suck in bed. and we do not do the same things in bed and i do do things to just him. i just dont get it. i am getting bored and frustrated trying to get him to do it. now its like i want to give up. could he really be tired? i dont know please help...
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your the besttttttttttttt ;) ...
im hoping something will change... soon.. guess we will see :-/ ughhh
im hoping something will change... soon.. guess we will see :-/ ughhh
Hey Girl,
You are a strong, brave, beautiful, and independent young woman and you can have any man you desire. Sometimes couples just don't work out not because there is anything wrong with either person, but together all the pieces just do not make a perfect fit. I'm sorry he is either too tired or too lame to get sexy with you. Just remember you are super sexy and you deserve to have someone see that in you every day. '-)
You are a strong, brave, beautiful, and independent young woman and you can have any man you desire. Sometimes couples just don't work out not because there is anything wrong with either person, but together all the pieces just do not make a perfect fit. I'm sorry he is either too tired or too lame to get sexy with you. Just remember you are super sexy and you deserve to have someone see that in you every day. '-)
yes but i think we are going to split only because the sex passion romance and we just never have time for each other anymore and when we do all he does is snap at me... whenever i say something he is very rude. i think the job has changed him.. sadly. he has been showing a little more interest in me now that i have zero interest in him only because he is so rude and snappy.
It is never the womans fault. Something medical or mental on the mans part. When a guy is horny he will have sex with any woman that wants too. When he is not horny he won't have sex with anyone.
Guys losing sex drive is much more common these days. Enviromental causes plays a huge role. Mens sperm count and testostrone levels are dropping drastically.
I say go get bloodwork done.His testostarone should be in the 900 range. 250-500 IS NOT NORMAL RANGE. Despite what a doctor may tell you. Those charts are outdated and misunderstood by most doctors.
Guys losing sex drive is much more common these days. Enviromental causes plays a huge role. Mens sperm count and testostrone levels are dropping drastically.
I say go get bloodwork done.His testostarone should be in the 900 range. 250-500 IS NOT NORMAL RANGE. Despite what a doctor may tell you. Those charts are outdated and misunderstood by most doctors.
I'd say definitely his job, not you at all. Get him to take some time off :). I really hope it works out for you :)
yes it is me. thank you that is nice of you to say. i know it is a stressful job i guess i have to take that into consideration. it is just hard to be with someone who doesn't really want you the way you want them. i love him and i know he loves me but i may have to reconsider the relationship if this is his job i guess??? this stinks...
If he is a police officier then that really says it all.It is one of the toughest jobs there is and he must be tired when he gets home not to mentioned stressed aswell,it can't be that he's not attracted to you because if that's you in the profile picture then you are a very goodlooking woman that any husband would desire,I put this down to his job not you.
i give him a back rub every night and i always have dinner ready for him when he walks in the door. i put a little weight on too but only because i am so stressed out. cuz i really feel like its me. ughh thank you for your support made me feel a little better :)
I blame myself too by the way. I put on weight. It isn't you, he will still think you're beautiful.
Hey, I think everyone hits this point. I have done. It's genuine tiredness in my experience. Try be romantics about it. Nice meal, candlelit bath, full body massage. He won't keep his hands off you. It's hard, I'm in the exact same position, and my other half is only 19, good luck him.
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