Get yourself some KY lube, and go slow at first.
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I am truly very sorry
I think it’s a first question you need to truly ask yourself is how hard is he really trying to get inside of you is if he really wants to be inside you or is it he’s making a half hearted attempt here are some ways you can find out
1) does she try to get you all wet ?
2) Does he go down on you before he tries to put his penis in you?
3) have you tried oils or lubrication to make it easier for him to slide up inside you ?
4) now this something you really need to think about the size of his penis does he have a really sick penis or is this something they call tensile sin is it like his big around as your finger or as big around as your wrist the size of his penis if it is really large could be part of the problem
5) have you ever used a dildo on yourself? If so then that means you have had something inside you so should be easier for him to get inside of you
I say this because if it was me I would go down on you to help make you ready to receive me into you and that would include playing with you putting my finger inside you and Buy going down on you making you *** before I try to insert my penis all the way in you but even if it took hours of playing with you eating you I would make you very nice and loose enough to where I could get all the way inside of you to make love with you And I would try several times in the same evening if that’s what it took because inside of you is where I belong and where we would want me to be and once inside of you we would have to make love with each other several times Over the next week or two to make sure you can receive me anytime we want Me inside of you and then to make love with you every week no matter what would be very important just for the personal connection but that is just me
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If you ever want or need any help or suggestions please so free to contact me as I would be more than glad to help you find a solution if you have not had this problem for you
It is possible he is not sexually attracted to women. That doesn't mean he does not love you, or that you're not sexually attractive. Talk to him about it without judgement. He is still a man even if he likes sex with men. This is something you could explore and maybe both of you could benefit from it.
This just sounds very strange to me. A man that is functioning normally, is heterosexual, and has a normal libido wouldn't have gone over 2 years without having sex with his spouse. I am here to say, anything longer than 3-4 days and I am getting on edge... and this is after nearly 20 years of marriage. I believe he needs to see a doctor or a psychologist -- maybe both -- since something is definitely wrong.
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You can try different position to find out which lets u get in.. the best position to get penetration is "scissor" and yeah a bit of oil as a lubricant would make it easy for you both
Is your husband "fully" erect? He cannot penetrate you if he`s "somewhat" erect.. Does he share yr desire to add a baby to your to your lives? If he doesn`t, it`ll translate to his body. Remember, the biggest sexual "organ" we have is our brain. Seek counseling if so. Have u tried giving him oral sex b4 intercourse? If none of these work, there may be a need for Viagra, Cialis etc.Good Luck!
You should go to a sex seminar
Find a local Ob-Gyn and make an appointment to examine you. You could have a hymen that almost covers your entire vaginal opening making penetration difficult.
Sounds like yall need a lot of lubrication on the penis get things going. Just use a lot of lubrication and make sure he is fully erected.
The opening maybe small but it stretches as soon as something is inserted. Is he able to get an erection? If he is then there should be no issue. Or maybe he fears that he will hurt u if he forces it inside you.
You may have vaginismus. It is a real condition but not widely discussed. Speak to your GP or gynecologist about it and don't be ashamed. There are many women affected by this issue.
Lie him down on his back, straddle him and insert it yourself, practice with anal sex if need be in this same position, or try laying down both of you, each on your side with his penis between your butt checks, when time comes ie he has erection enough to push forward into you without bending, help him inse t himself into you by placing your hand on the front ensuring it goes inside and not just out the front of your thighs. If worried you are too small, buy a dildo similar size or just a bit smaller than your husband, use it immediately before attempting penetration by him.
very strange how can you be married for more than two years and not have any sexual intercourse, my advice would be that take your husband to some doctor and you too may need some medical advice as to have no sex for two years of your marriage is pretty strange.
He needs to penetrate you with some lubrication on his penis or with a lubricated condom. The vagina needs to be very moist for penetration. If yall don't to take this route. You can always buy you a fake penis and practice penetrating yourself (masturbation) just to loosen up the vagina entrance.