How to control my sexual and fetish fantasies?

[MarkWilson4455]

I'm a 19 year old male and it seems my sexual fantasies (or rather FANTASY) are taking myself over. You see, I have a fetish for tickling. I constantly think about it with girls combined. And yes, I sometimes fantasise about me getting tickled by attractive girls like most guys would do with this fetish. Makes me kinda guilty that I'm objectifying women that way.....

I also have the desperate need to go on fetish websites and search for videos involving tickling and when seeing ones with guys getting tickled by girls, it frustrates me and makes me envious, even though it was just a video. It makes me masturbate frustratingly over and over again until I get exhausted.

I really want my fantasy to be fulfilled so I no longer have to look at these videos and be jealous. What should I do?

[MarkWilson4455]

It's not as easy as you think. I'm in college but here we don't have any dorms and most girls are in groups so it's difficult to try and talk to one of them when she's with other girls. I have few friends who barely get out much and I'm trying to find a good job to earn some money (and yes, I mean GOOD job).

[LeighAnn18]

You need to get a life. You need to keep yourself busy woth work friends and hobbies. And get a girlfriend and date her for a long time, get intimate with her and be comfortable to share personal things with her such as your fetish and then your fantasy will be fulfilled. Then get married and have kids.