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I'm not as horny as I used to

I'm 19 years old
I had been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years and we had a healthy sex life
I used to be horny all the time and wanted to have sex

We broke up for three months and then got back together, we have been together for 1 month now and I just haven't felt the longing to have sex anymore
He tries to get it on almost every night and I can just feel it that when he touches me or kisses me I don't get the butterfly feeling or feel that I get horny at all

I'm afraid that if I don't fix this soon he will leave me, last 3 times we have had sex I faked it and just did it to get him off my back and so he wouldn't get pissed at me..

I don't know what I can do...
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It sounds like this may not be a sexual problem but maybe a relationship problem. Are the two of you getting along well? Can you say why you broke up before, was it because of cheating, communication problems or something else?  
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We are great, even better emotionally than we were before

We broke up becauseI took a snap decision thinking that I wanted something else, I realized that was the stupidest idea right away...

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