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In love with my uncle..
Hey, I'm 15 years old, about to be 16.
Recently I went to a trip at Guatemala for vacation to just spend my time there with my family.
I really didn't know my whole family there. It was my first year going.
I went over to my mom's mom to spend a week at their house. I've never met them before, I have 2 cousins one of them; she's 19 years old, Second; he's 21 years old. I also met my uncle(youngest from my grandma's child) for the first time.
He's a great guy. We both got a long so quick. We would always go to a park or how they call it over there "El Centro". He'd take me with his motorcycle and then he would teach me how to drive it, and I did it! He was and still is really generous with me. He sweet and amazing!
One day, he went to his work place "The Internet" ( it's right down from where we lived, literally). I followed him. It was dark and the road was slippery, I fell over my dog, I slipped and injured myself. He looked back and helped me get up and hugged me tight, I hugged him even tighter not wanting to let go not knowing why..
We got in his work place, we started talking and he started apologizing thinking it was his fault, it wasn't.
I found out why I couldn't let go.. I fell in love with my uncle ( he barely turned 20, we're like 4 years apart). I couldn't keep it in, I told him how I felt about him.. he thought I was "joking" but I wasn't. He told me how he felt too, he felt the same way as I do. He kept staring at me and I stared back, his eyes so dreamy and lovable, I could see a bright sparkle in his eyes.
He leaned in and kissed me, I kissed him back and I loved it.
Now we are far apart because we live in different countries. We always talk though, 24/7. We talk on the phone, we message each other always. I told him that for me going back to Guatemala it'll probably take years.. he said he didn't care and that he will wait for me, no matter how long it'd take.
I really miss him and I do love him just as he loves me. We plan on waiting for each other and then have a life together. ♡
I know what you guys will say.. that I'm a confused child. Yes, I'm 15, but I do feel love towards him.
All I need is help, advice. Is it worth it?? Am I doing a great job?? Or should I just stop with all this.? Please help, thank you.
Recently I went to a trip at Guatemala for vacation to just spend my time there with my family.
I really didn't know my whole family there. It was my first year going.
I went over to my mom's mom to spend a week at their house. I've never met them before, I have 2 cousins one of them; she's 19 years old, Second; he's 21 years old. I also met my uncle(youngest from my grandma's child) for the first time.
He's a great guy. We both got a long so quick. We would always go to a park or how they call it over there "El Centro". He'd take me with his motorcycle and then he would teach me how to drive it, and I did it! He was and still is really generous with me. He sweet and amazing!
One day, he went to his work place "The Internet" ( it's right down from where we lived, literally). I followed him. It was dark and the road was slippery, I fell over my dog, I slipped and injured myself. He looked back and helped me get up and hugged me tight, I hugged him even tighter not wanting to let go not knowing why..
We got in his work place, we started talking and he started apologizing thinking it was his fault, it wasn't.
I found out why I couldn't let go.. I fell in love with my uncle ( he barely turned 20, we're like 4 years apart). I couldn't keep it in, I told him how I felt about him.. he thought I was "joking" but I wasn't. He told me how he felt too, he felt the same way as I do. He kept staring at me and I stared back, his eyes so dreamy and lovable, I could see a bright sparkle in his eyes.
He leaned in and kissed me, I kissed him back and I loved it.
Now we are far apart because we live in different countries. We always talk though, 24/7. We talk on the phone, we message each other always. I told him that for me going back to Guatemala it'll probably take years.. he said he didn't care and that he will wait for me, no matter how long it'd take.
I really miss him and I do love him just as he loves me. We plan on waiting for each other and then have a life together. ♡
I know what you guys will say.. that I'm a confused child. Yes, I'm 15, but I do feel love towards him.
All I need is help, advice. Is it worth it?? Am I doing a great job?? Or should I just stop with all this.? Please help, thank you.
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The above advice is quite correct and practical. Medically speaking, progeny of such couple will carry negative genes,multiplying the effect. This will result in weaker generation. This is the main reason why the almost universal society has adopted such rules.
Hi,
Here's my advice and a few comments on your situation, you can take it or leave it...
You are a 15 year old young lady, and still a minor. There is something that you need to be aware of, in many countries and in the United States, there are laws that prohibit family members from having relationships that are sexual in nature (incestuous). Not only can it be illegal, but it is looked down upon and considered immoral in our society and culture. So if you were to take your relationship to a sexual level, this is the reality of what you could be facing in the future with your uncle.
How do your parents feel about this; do they know about the two of you? How do you think your family would react to your relationship? Would they disapprove or be angry?
Being in love or having a crush on a family member can cause a lot of problems for you and your family. I personally don't think it's a good idea for you to continue on; it's fine to admire your uncle and be good friends, but falling in love with him could be disastrous for both of you.
Take Care
Here's my advice and a few comments on your situation, you can take it or leave it...
You are a 15 year old young lady, and still a minor. There is something that you need to be aware of, in many countries and in the United States, there are laws that prohibit family members from having relationships that are sexual in nature (incestuous). Not only can it be illegal, but it is looked down upon and considered immoral in our society and culture. So if you were to take your relationship to a sexual level, this is the reality of what you could be facing in the future with your uncle.
How do your parents feel about this; do they know about the two of you? How do you think your family would react to your relationship? Would they disapprove or be angry?
Being in love or having a crush on a family member can cause a lot of problems for you and your family. I personally don't think it's a good idea for you to continue on; it's fine to admire your uncle and be good friends, but falling in love with him could be disastrous for both of you.
Take Care
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