Ya, that doesn't sound right. Are you ever too old for sex? Libido decreases and ability to maintain erection decreases with age but 42 is too young. Is he a low libido person? That's not uncommon. It could be due to stress and depression, low testosterone, medication he is taking, etc. Could he have any issues with erection like erectile dysfunction? What's the rest of your relationship like? He's not mad at ya, is he?
Just want to chime in & agree w/ both GuitarRox & auntiejessi - 42 is WAY too young to say you’re too old for sex! I’m 69 & still have a strong sex drive. I had prostate cancer surgery & that’s slowed me down quite a bit but I’ve been doing evthg I can to try to get back to full functioning, some progress after 2 yrs, not where I wanna be, but improving. I can’t imagine giving up sex even at my age, certainly not early 40s! As others suggested, have him get physically checked & also some counseling may be in order.
u kno wat? try toys or foreplay. talk it out explain it that hey I would like you to use toys on me, or your fingers just be around me like the young days. If you talk a few times I am certain anyone will understand. Don't think other person doesnt care. That is the biggest mistake. 99% men and women both are loyal it is just temporary stress or temporary temptation that makes them switch partners or cheat or end an otherwise wonderful marriage life. Dont throw away a partner. Remember. A good blacksmith can restore scrap into valuable items. And every person cares for their partner inside. Their stress and insecurities about not being enough for their partner makes them appear unbothered and indifferent but trust me every person cares for their partner a LOT even if they appear to forget birthdays or have quarrels or fights. Have trust in that love and it will return. Telling that from experience.
Something is wrong. Forty two is way to young to quit having sex. We are 63 and 64 and still have a good sex life. He should have a thorough check up to rule out any physical/mental issues, and then go from there.