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LIBIDOS

Hey, There's no question I have a strong libido compared to some other women, however my Boyfriend seems to mirror this, because his isn't quite as much as most other men. He doesn't masturbate and he can go a couple of weeks without having sex with me. The problem is I can initiate it, however over half the time his not in the mood, or busy. I can even walk around in sexy underwear and I won't get the same reaction I would expect from a man in general. I don't knock the fact that he doesn't have the same sex drive as I do, but I was wondering If anyone knew any ways I can get him to do the deed more often, so that we can meet half way rather than not having sex at all most the time.
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Good luck sorry.
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I had no drive when I wasnt home for my gf . I'd work 100 hours a week and had know drive what so ever. Then I got ms and I'm stuck home and my drive is sorta coming back but not fully when I was 17 to 20 that's all I did. When I hit 21 I had a kid and that's all I thought about was setting up for his life to be better then mine and I got unlucky with tons of problems and nothing I want for him he's getting. But any way when I wasn't in the mood it didn't matter what she did I wouldn't be in the mood it took me feeling bad and wanting to keep my family together to do it but she would even try getting me in the mood when I was in the shower playing with me and it wouldn't work.so if he's stressed it won't work for me anyways try to figure out what's on his mind the most like work or home family something take like a week to show him its important and so are you nicely throw if he really cares heel see. Even with ms my sex drive is coming back a bit witch might be the seriods. I'm only 24 and had no drive for a few years goof luck
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4456827 tn?1363378247
Figure out what gets him in the mood, you might think you know, but are completely wrong. There is nothing wrong with asking no one is a mind reader._
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