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marriage issues
I put the same question on the community forum. People from forum helped me with their comments however I need opinion of an expert.
I am married for a year and a half, got a baby 9 months ago.
I have so many issues with my husband since the baby was born. He became distant, and now it is almost like living with a stranger. Doesn't sleep in the same bad with me anymore, over 4 months we had no sexual activity.
When I want to talk with him he says everything is ok, I am just imagining things. I suggested marriage counseling, but he thinks that's of no importance.
I suspect he is having an affair. Cann't prove anything.
Any advice.
I am married for a year and a half, got a baby 9 months ago.
I have so many issues with my husband since the baby was born. He became distant, and now it is almost like living with a stranger. Doesn't sleep in the same bad with me anymore, over 4 months we had no sexual activity.
When I want to talk with him he says everything is ok, I am just imagining things. I suggested marriage counseling, but he thinks that's of no importance.
I suspect he is having an affair. Cann't prove anything.
Any advice.
Surprise him with a great night of sex.
Alot of imagination, some wine, some candels... it always works.
Take control, man like when women take control. I mean really take control, rip his clothes of if you have too.
Alot of imagination, some wine, some candels... it always works.
Take control, man like when women take control. I mean really take control, rip his clothes of if you have too.
Why does he sleep ina different room? Has he given you a reason for that?
Being a man I don't know his situation or what he is thinking. I would suggest marriage counseling.
Be very patient and understanding and do not get upset with him, but make it a strong point that you and him need to sit down and talk. I would do it on a weekend when you have plenty of time. Make a list of everything you want/need to discuss with him. And at the end if you don't get the answers you want then you can tell him that you think "we" have grown apart and want to seek counseling because he and your child are the most important things in the world to you.
Being a man I don't know his situation or what he is thinking. I would suggest marriage counseling.
Be very patient and understanding and do not get upset with him, but make it a strong point that you and him need to sit down and talk. I would do it on a weekend when you have plenty of time. Make a list of everything you want/need to discuss with him. And at the end if you don't get the answers you want then you can tell him that you think "we" have grown apart and want to seek counseling because he and your child are the most important things in the world to you.
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