vaginal bleeding and soreness normal?

[killemwiththesmile]

So I've been noticing, that after sexual intercourse I don't feel as "lubricated" as I normally am. My boyfriend and I have found out that I am a "squriter" and after the first and second time my body allows me to get off, I start feelings really dry and I know I should stop but it still feels fantastic that I don't bother stopping., and after I go to the bathroom and I find a little pinkish discharge from my vagina.. and the entire next day too. Just little amounts and sometimes large amounts of clear runny fluid that passes right through me It's like I soak my panties. And it also hurts. Not bad but its like I'm a virgin again, everytime. And he says its because we should use lube. Or I souldnt go so rough.. or stop when I do get off, but I don't think I go that rough, well not enough to do that to myself, and should I have to stop even if I get off, and still feel like I want to go again.. Can someone please help. And I'm scared I may have an std.. but I have no foul smells, no itching or irritation or abnormal discharge only after sex. And if this helps, I get really harsh abnormally heavy and very painful periods. (To the point of passing out, vomiting and sometimes I feel like I have memory loss) Personally I think it could be something wrong with my womanhood.
Please help, I appreciate you taking your time !

[Caryopteris]

You can get anemic from heavy periods, so do talk to your doctor.  Your energy can get very low and it takes a long time to recover, so don't wait.  

Good lube is Silk-E.  You don't sound like you have a UTI, but you are very lucky because if that was me, I would get a UTI usually.  It doesn't sound like an STD, but you could have a yeast infection causing the dryness and irritation.  Try treating for that and wash all your underwear in hot water with baking soda.  Use pantiliners when needed. to keep clean and dry.  

[Anonymouse88]

It sounds like you could use some lube, especially at the point where you feel like you're drying out.  Please use either a water or silicon based lube.  You should NOT use actual oil or anything with sugar in it.  Oil can be a growing ground for nasties and it breaks down condoms, and sugar can give you a yeast infection (so avoid that flavored lube if he's giving you oral sex, and don't use it for intercourse).

You should talk to your doctor about those periods.  Those sound out of the normal range.  I used to get heavy periods that would last 7 days, with horrible cramping the first few days, but not to the extent you're having.  Still, I was having to take 800mg of ibuprofen to deal with the pain.  Ever since I started taking birth control pills, I have a 5 day period, it's lighter, and I can function without any pain killers if I have to.  Some form of hormonal birth control could be the answer to your period issues, but you need to discuss it with an ob/gyn to make sure you get the right treatment for you.

[NOHARD]

Hi Smilely, Ok first if you think you have an STD get tested, clears your mind, but from what your saying you sound OK.
You could try some vitamin B6, they say this works for extra lubrication, or just get your self some sex oil, theres loads about, or do both.
And if your cycles are regular, then a couple of days before they start go on some iron tablets to help buil;d up your blood and help your strength.
Hope this helps.
Good Luck