im 17, I guess the bit i dont understand is how its just started, it's not like we are doing anything different from before. 80% there isn't even any skin to skin contact, and there are no 'wounds' from what I can see. I know not all girl bleed but its like the tiniest bit, as if you just pricked your finger. It seems to be an internal thing as its like with/in lubrication stuff :/ I'm convinced it's nothing but would like to know whats going on. and im not really up for going to the doctors, being a self-conscience teen and all that
I know you say you've not had intercourse but just a bit of information anyway - you don't always bleed the first time you have intercourse or if your hymen breaks. Some girls hymens are already broken before the first time they have too - sport and even wearing tampons can break it.
How old are you? Maybe the bleeding is just from being 'fingered' by him. If you're bleeding then just stop what you're doing.