OK..I KNOW I should be flattered, but I just do not want sex every single night and he does. He feels bad or cheated somehow if I don't and of course wants active participation. I've tried talking to him about it, but I never know how to say I just don't feel like it without him getting upset. If this continues, I am going to start becoming bored. I prefer quality over quantity and by quality I mean that I am also into it. The sex is good, but I am quickly becoming tired of it as it's becoming more of a chore than pleasure at this point. I start thinking by the middle of the day how I can get out of it without him becoming upset. It's like he thinks he has to prove something or he thinks our sex life isn't healthy if we don't do it every night (and he tries for 2-3 times a night!).