fingering and virginity

[laylaaaa]

I have been fingered several times but I didnt bleed, does it mean Im virgin?
This thing happened more than 5 years ago and im still concerned.

[lindahand]

Virginity is lost when you have intercourse in my mind. No sex = still a virgin. Many women masterbate or are fingered by a partner to keep their virginity in tact. You may have rupture the hymen which in some cultures is what they use to 'prove' virginity, but in many cultures that isn't considered the case.

I think you are 100% safe in considering yourself a virgin and I think that 95% of those in the first world would agree with me.

So I would let yourself off the hook. When you decide to have sex for the first time, you will be giving that person the gift of your virginity and that is a very honourable thing.

[NOHARD]

Hi Layla, look if you have not had a bleed yet tes you are still the virgin, and 5 years and are you still the virgin then? wow lucky you, or are you saving yourself for Mr Right, and thats no joke.
Good Luck

[hero65]

it depends how far did his fingers go in ... because people think when you lose your virginity you have to bleed and that's not true some people don't bleed