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i doesnt get orgasmic
hi,
I want ur help plz help me out i am 23years old i am married before my marrige i hav done some time masturabate by finger to my self. but now when we hav get married i doesnt get my orgasm my husband is now faustrated of me and he is making fun of me that y i am not having my orgasm. plz help me out in my problem and make my married life happy.
I want ur help plz help me out i am 23years old i am married before my marrige i hav done some time masturabate by finger to my self. but now when we hav get married i doesnt get my orgasm my husband is now faustrated of me and he is making fun of me that y i am not having my orgasm. plz help me out in my problem and make my married life happy.
Personally I don't think size matters, cliche I know, but being stretched wide open or not shouldn't make any difference. You have to be comfortable and in the right frame of mind, or it's never going to happen. You can't be worried about not orgasming or feeling belittled by your man.. That is terrible. You have to be completely happy and completely relaxed or you are fighting a losing battle.
And then the guy needs to work at it. It's unlikely anything great is going to happen if all he does is thrusts away. There has to be foreplay, and tenderness, and an emotional connection, and then he has to physically do the right things, and kiss, and lick all the right places. If you can climax with your finger, then he should be able to make you climax. He has 10 fingers and then a big finger between his legs. So if you can do it, he can do it. He shouldn't be making fun of you, he should be trying to improve HIS performance so that he satisfies you. And you can help him by communicating. If he does something that you really like, say, "I REALLY like that right there!".
And then the guy needs to work at it. It's unlikely anything great is going to happen if all he does is thrusts away. There has to be foreplay, and tenderness, and an emotional connection, and then he has to physically do the right things, and kiss, and lick all the right places. If you can climax with your finger, then he should be able to make you climax. He has 10 fingers and then a big finger between his legs. So if you can do it, he can do it. He shouldn't be making fun of you, he should be trying to improve HIS performance so that he satisfies you. And you can help him by communicating. If he does something that you really like, say, "I REALLY like that right there!".
Try different positions that stimulate your G-Spot (the area about 3 inches into the vagina that has a cluster of nerve endings). I would reccomend that you read Comsopolitian magazine. They have a lot of good sex positions in there that can target different areas. They also have detailed descriptions and diagrams for you. If you don't mind me asking, but how big (when fully erect) is your husband's penis?
And how long have you been masturbating?
And how long have you been masturbating?
hi i hav done but still i am not haning my orgasm.
It is very common to need clitorial stimulation along with penetration. I'd say do both at once and you should have sucess.
I cannot get an orgasm with just a penis, I have to rub my clitoris at the same time. The feeling is different, better but I cannot have an orgasm with just a penis. Try that and see if it works.
it's normal and you may find that continuing to use your finger is the only way
lots of women have a hard time having an orgasm. so i wouldnt worry about it too much. its not like abnormal
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