saw his comments on his cell phone where he talked about it
He might have been doing this for a while, just got caught now.
How do you know for a fact that has happened?
How do you feel about that? Are you thinking of terminating the marriage?
I know for a fact he has brought someone to our home
Dear Ski bum. Wow. 35 years. Could be that he feels a new desire that he wishes to explore. I don't have any gay friends. So it's hard for me to understand but I'm here if you need to talk.
Are you going to talk to him about it? Another possibility is that he's still keeping this in the fantasy realm. Pamela
it can be that he always was a bi sexual and did not tell you before. In some cases, people just discover bi sexuality at a later date in life. I think best you can do is to have an open chat with him and request him to curb his instincts. Plus also let him know that seeking anything outside marriage is cheating. On other hand, also figure out ways and means to make the current sex between 2 of you more pleasurable and enjoyable.