now Im a *********??

[Daslicht]

Ok, I posted before with a problem my boyfriend thinks I'ma nympho, and yeah here's another concern: I know this may be weird to some but my boyfriend and I do this role play thing where I pretend he's a little boy and I pretend I'm his mother and I'm seducing him and he feels scared and molested but it's all part of the act and he even makes a little boy voice. This turns me on immensely because he is a very big guy in all aspects and Im veery petite short barely 110 pounds. so it makes me feel very much in control sexually when he usually has it. lately he refuses to do it and suddenly thinks I'm psychotic and have pedophilic tendencies which I dont and never have. This might be a dumb question: but does it really sound like im sick? or is he just a prude?

[Vance2335]

There is a huge double standard and it is not right. When you have 20 year old guys hot for Britney Spears when she first came on the scene that was sick. And the school girl outfit is ok as long as the girl is not playing a young school girl. If the girl is just dressing that way to look hot and sexy-fine, just as you can dress up how you want to look hot and sex or your boyfriend.
Yes school kids do want to bang some of his/her teachers, but it doesn't work in the other direction because when it does the teacher gets arrested because it's illegal and damages the child.

If you think it's ok to do what you then that is fine, but you can't force your boyfriend to do what you want in bed. if he doesn't want to do it anymore then find something else to do. Dress up different, role play different.

[Daslicht]

what about men and thier "fetish" with women in schoolgirl outfits, pig tails, freckles, and even  pacifier? and their fascination with breasts and suckling on them?? doesn't every boy fantasize about screwing their teacher?? what does that make the woman that gets a boob job to attract men or dresses up like a teacher or little girl scout to entice her husband or lover?? When me, a woman, shares similar fantasies in the reverse, im a *********! that's a rotten double-standard. my bf needs to get a grip. :) and so do a lot of you women and men out there. thanks ya'll

[SixStringer]

There is no problem here as long as you are playing this out in a limited situation with your boyfriend.  A lot of behavior involving sex is role playing.  There's always a good amount of control or dominance, for instance, when a petite woman gives her man a blowjob with the man passively accepting pleasure with the woman directing her attention in a certain ways.

[deepdiver]

slow_healer hit the nail on the head! you're OK!

[slow_healer]

There's a *huge* spectrum of what people fantasize about - male and female, normal and "abnormal". Daslicht, you know your fantasies are just that - fantasies. You have no desire to actually do this in a real-life situation. This sounds like something your partner simply can't relate with. He's just not comfortable with it. That doesn't make you psychotic or a *********.

You could try looking up japanese manga to satisfy your fantasies instead of role-playing them. Your type of fantasy is its own genre there.

[Vance2335]

I also think it sounds a little sick. Role playing is not bad, but mother and 10 year old boy is very weird.
I suggest you find other things to role play about. If he likes to be dominated then cop/suspect and things like that but stay away from any kind of mother/son-father/daughter, etc..., anything where it could make thoughts of molestation.

[momagain59]

You sound like someone that was sexually molested as a child and now you want to be the one in control. If you are not capable of doing this to a child, why would it turn you on? You asked, so yes I think it sounds kind of sick and I do not blame him for being concerned. I am not trying to judge you, this is just what it sounds like to me. Have you ever been in therapy?