Maybe you are too uptight. Try to relax. Focus on how you feel about him. Also, maybe you need more foreplay. Ask your guy to do the things that you like--things you will respond to. Explore! Your body will tell you what it likes. Try being the one on top, that way you really get the full experience of what pushes your buttons and what angle or style does what. And most of all, enjoy it. Eventually your body will respond in climax.
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