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IVFers over 40 for March/April??

I'm having IVF starting at the end of March.  This is my first one so I'm really nervous and would love to share this journey with someone!!
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961574 tn?1520648103
mhv
I started prometrium last night!  10 days, then call with cd1!  It's getting closer! : )
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Pum
Hi there,

I've not visited this board for a while and hope I can join this thread. I had egg retrieval yesterday. 7 eggs and today got the call that 6 have fertilised. I've always hoped for about 5 embryos so we're on track so far. I'm 43 so I am well aware the odds aren't great.
The pain yesterday was fine. The worst things so far for me have been the headaches while on the bcp (which is the reason I gave them up years ago).
It's funny, I have been thinking of this as a procedure to get through to help me move on to accepting no second baby for us. It's like my one last try. I am trying hard not to let hope push her way into my life. The opposite of thinking positively. I hope it doesn't ruin things.
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Globetrot: how long are you on the Lupron for?
Hopefully you're able to sneak out ok to do your drugs :)

MHV: that's so great!!!!!!!!! You are so on your way. It's so nice to get started isn't it!!

Pum: 6 fertilized! That's wonderful news. Are you doing 3 or 5 day transfer and how many are they transferring??

I took my trigger shot tonight for ER on Friday. Total of 4 follies ranging from 1.2-1.7 on today's U/S. I'm a bit disapointed I didn't get more but we'll see what happens!!!
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Hi Everyone, got the call today that 18 fertilized.  I am happy the results are good, but still nervous about the whole thing.  I am still in a lot of pain, but my nurse says it is only because I had so many eggs - which results in extra pokes - and that can be very painful. Besides the pain, I still have a little bleeding.

I could not go to work today, but may try to work a few hours tomorrow.  ET is scheduled for Friday 4/8, then 3-4 days of strict bed rest.

MHV - Are you doing the monster shots?

Hopeful - Woo hoo!  All I can tell you is that when you wake up and they tell you how many eggs they got, it was like when the Dr announced "It's a girl/boy!"  Keep us posted!

Pum-I know exactly how you feel, it's like being afraid to dream

Globtrot- You are a week away from trigger - tops!
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Pum
Hopeful: They are doing a 3 day transfer and will transfer 2. We are doing assisted hatching. I hope your collection goes ok. Be kind to yourself.

Babydreamer: 18 fertilised is amazing. That gives you a lot of options. My big day is Saturday. Is bed rest recommended? I was just going to take it easy but i will take any excuse to lie around and be waited on. I only didn't go to work as I couldn't drive for 24 hrs but it's back to work tomorrow.
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961574 tn?1520648103
mhv
Baby-That's Awesome!! : )   I am so excited for you!  Friday is quickly appoaching!  How many will you transfer?

Yep, I guess I will be doing the Monster Shots.  I am going to try and use a smaller needle.  A 23 guage instead of a 22.  I heard it takes alot long to get out of the syringe, but I think I can actually give myself that shot.  The 22 is just SO big!  ugh!


Hopeful- We are all rooting for you!  It only takes one!  : )

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