where is the love??!!

[makyla]

why is it soooo.....hard to find the right man to love you its always like the man that was ment to be with you is right there but you spend your hole life looking for them and there right there but you dont realize it and you end up passing up an amazing oppertunity in your life and then you end up feeling worthless and that theres no one truly out there for you is there really someone out there or is it that not every one falls in love because thats what im begining to think?????????????!!!!!!!

[matt803]

Be PAtient but man guys like us usulley want to take advantage of you so find a guy that dosn't think of you as a sex toy because they are guys that will be on youre side untill death to us apart.... ( and im not gay for cirst sake)

[soniq0491]

there is a simple comment: YOU WILL FIND SOMEONE

ive heard this from alot of my friends but they end up going out with trash just because they want the perfect person right away and many of them now have problems because of it.

PLEASE WAIT

YOU WILL...

find the right person, it may be hard, but it WILL happen.
Dont try to hard. just relax and go with life and you will find
that person your looking for.

[Jimmy223]

first of all there's really no such thing as the perfect guy or girl its just what people tell themselves when they are deeply in love when really nobody can be perfect and we all know that. PS if a lot of guys you find just don't make a good match for you then try looking for one in another social group. If you just can't someone that satisfies you maybe you need to lower your expectations and try to accept it if ur guy has some sort of quality you dont like, after all nobody is perfect.

[NoHopeOrLove]

omg my gf who cheated on my was name mikayla her parents are divorce and she moved with her dad... your making me cry reading what you wrote... dont tell me u r her... cuase if u are i would like to say that ur a horrible person and how could u do that to me

[StressedInsomniac]

Love....

Lets just say you will notice when you meet the one for you, when your with them it will bring you BEST qualitys out in you, your really happy around them, no one matters but them!

a girl i met back in April when i see her i just want to be with ehr, but as she is seeing someone that makes it more difficult now. But she knows how i feel about her and she said she felt the same way. When you cannot be with this person it makes you feel worthless. But if you stay good friends with him/her your time will eventually come round.
just dont let anyone come between you! As that can really mess things up, trust me that happend a week or two ago :(.

So thats love!!!

[JamesParty]

Well you just don't find love around the corner lady. All do respect, it takes effort and work to make love happen. It takes two, meaning you AND your soon to be boyfriend or guy your interested in. But before we get into the word love, first find a man with good interest and skills that you can be into. Looks are somethings, but it really takes the inside of a guy to show you how he really is like. In other words, looks aren't just everything. He could be the hottest thing on the block, but could be the biggest ****** bag of all time. So take your time with guys and go on small dates until you find a guy that interest you, NOT SEXUALLY. Because if your just looking for a good looking guy for sexual fun and not the real meaning of love, then whatever. But sorry to get off topic and I didn't mean to offend you since I see millions of people each day abuse and misuse the meaning of the word love.

Just find a guy that can keep your interest, fall head over heels after months of seeing this guy, then theres your love :)

I'm a 17 year old guy which has never experienced love before, but I'm urging to find that type of girl somewhere out there just right for me. Good luck anyways!

[slow_healer]

Yes, finding the "right" person can make things wonderful, but don't downplay all the other people in your life. Friends and family are also big needs that are easy to forget when you're thoroughly consumed by a boy/girlfriend.

The reality is that the only person who will always be there for you is YOU, so take good care of yourself and your support networks. Manage that, and that special someone will come seeking you. When you know you're going to feel particularly lonely, make plans. Hang out with friends. Watch a good show. Even though it can be hard to resist at times, sitting and focussing on how lonely you feel doesn't really do much to help you. When you can, spend that energy elsewhere.

You know something that really helped me when I was younger and feeling so desperate to have someone special in my life was writing. I used to write stories about female characters that I wished I could be more like, and about male characters who would help me overcome my inner barriers. Especially when you have a bad past with boys, sometimes just writing about a make-believe situation can help you work out some of those bad feelings. I always felt better after writing for a while, and it even helped me become a much better writer in school and at work. Try it. Keep it saved in a secret place and keep it only for yourself. It will be like taking your feelings and exploring them in a whole new way. It may also help you realize what you're really looking for sometimes, because often we fool ourselves into thinking that "this thing" will solve my problems, when really it has little to do with the problem to begin with. Good luck.

[makyla]

Ya...but don't you ever feel so lonely that it hurts? I can only wrapp my arms around myself and stare into the vacant darkness. I want someone who will allways be there... but i'm so afraid to be hurt like all my ex.'s hurt me.

[mike1818]

I feel the same way

[slow_healer]

Slow down! Love is far less likely to be there when you're focussing so hard on looking for it. Live your life, enjoy your life, and love will find you as YOU grow.