older guys...

[iNeedSerenity]

ok so im a 15 yr old girl..im in high school....i think i have a problem with older guys...im just attracted to older guys more than guys my own age...is this a bad thing??? this all started when i was 14 i started seeing this 18 yr old and id sneak out just to see him and he wuld drive like an hour just to see me and we started getting close and then he wanted sex and i wuldnt give him that so then we kinda drifted apart......then i started dating a 16 yr old ( thats a lil better haha) then he cheated on me and it was just a confusing mess...so then i was single for a long time and started having alot of one night stands.... then i started meeting guys on the internet....i met this 19-yr old guy on there and he lived a couple hrs away...and we started talking alot and kept getting closer then we decided to meet...when we met it went really well but we got drunk together and i ended up having sex with him then i cried when he left...call me crazy haha and it was the first nite of seeing eachother but i was drunk....he still talked to me after that and then we started dating...we dated for a few months and i seriusly fell in love with him!!! he broke my heart twice....i think he was just worried about the age thing.....age is just a number to me...and hes moving away this summer...i miss him alot!! but i know i can do better than him ( hes a stoner )....

guys who are my age are just so immature and retarded and dont understand....so i just dont know why im soo attracted to older guys....i dont if its a bad thing...and i cant tell my parents cuz idk what they wuld say.....

i think i like older guys because they actually want to have sumthing serius and not just play around ...well sum of them anyways...and sumtimes i feel like the older guy im with is using me....well anyways shuld i try to stay away from older guys??? ...i dont know if i can tho i feel so right with guys like 5 yrs older than me....im only 15 and i need advice on this really bad!!!!! help me....do they just want sex from me??? and how do i know if they actually like me??? ....i feel like an obsessed freak!!!....if it is right to like older guys then how wuld i tell my parents.....i always have to sneak around them and LIE!!!! im so guilty....

[issabella25]

Hi yes older guys are more interesting but not all responsible and yes most only want sex I stated dateing a guy when I was 18 he was 29 but beefore I started dateing him I ask my parents permission you have to remember when dateing older guys they usally want something for the long haul and some date younger girls because it gives them someone to control you have to remember if your dating a guy that is 20 he is able to go to bars a drink and all kinds of other things where at 15 you are not of age you relly have to be careful with older men and tell your parents about this in my case I got lucky I have been off and on with him for 8 years and three children later when I turned 19 I wanted to be able to hang out with my girlfriends i went to school with and he woulnd.t hear of it he started acting like my father and at 19 I felt I didn't need another father I had one we have had a lot of problems during our 8 years and now that I am 25 and he is 36 he is vary insecure don't get me wrong he is a hard worker and always has taken care of me and our daughters to the best of his ability but he also has a lot of skeletons in his closet from before I met him there are many 20 year olds out there that still act 15 if you think about are you relly dating older men I will tell you what my mom told me she said are you sure you want to date this man he is it for the long haul and you better be prepared at the time I said I was but I really wasn't so please becareful and think about what comes with dating older men and at 20 men want sex and at 15 you may not be ready for that and there is more to a relationship then sex and if that is all these men want then there not worth your time and besides your only 15 you still have a whole lot of life to go and boys and men can wait get your education and live your life you will find the right person when your older and please please don't meet men of the internet its far to dangerous and you never know what your going to get and there are a whole lot of terrible people out there and please don't be  another statistic or missing person not all people are what they seem Goodluck i hope this helps

[margypops]

Yes that what most of them want in fact,and probably all the Teen guys want. Dont put it out, be more elusive, they will respect you and you will respect yourself which is pretty important isnt it,I am surprised your parents dont keep you at home with them more, you must have a ton of school work to do,are you going on to College, How about some sport or joining a Theatre Club or a Dance club there seems to be a lot of activitys out there ,its not all about Guys, its your life, its about you.Respect your self,