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help me!!!!!! im 14

what does it mean if u had sex with a condom an ur having cramps but no breast soreness 3 or 4 weeks later it was only my second time to third time i have an irrgater period i had sex on march 4th an then a again on march 11th and 12th! the 12th i was apost to start my period but i didnt an i didnt the month before but i did in january! im freakin out thinkin im pergant what do i do? iswear i will wait next time
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that's great that you got birth control and all but you are only 14 i don't understand why you are having sex right now...im 16 and still a virgin and i am perfectly ok with that because there is not need to rush things, all you are doing is taking away from your childhood, you have the rest of your life to be a grownup and do what ever you want, so why start it now?
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Glad to hear you are not pregnant. Make sure to take the birth control as you are supposed to, because if you miss a day or take it late, you can easily get pregnant.  
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im not pergant i fanilly found out an i got birth control today!!:)
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If you have an irregular period, how do you know when your next is due? You need to seriously consider WHO it is that you sleep with, because often men will leave as soon as pregnancy is mentioned, especially teenage boys. You're so young, why are you having sex now. (Sorry...I just have a 13 year old sister and if I found out she was having sex I'd kill her) The thing is, sex is a very adult choice and one meant for reproduction. When you make that choice, you need to accept any and ALL consequences of that, regardless of age. If you can't handle that then you need to abstain until you are. As for if you're pregnant, the only way is by taking a pregnancy test. You should be able to get them at any store. It would also be advisable to speak to your parents about either getting birth control, or just that you're now sexually active. They might freak out, but I'm sure they'd be more upset if you went to them saying you're pregnant.
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Well if you were ovulating while you had sex then theres a higher chance of pregnancy but if not then its slim. The only way to see is get a pregnancy test & if you cant get it then get a friend you trust to get one for you. If its been 2 weeks since you had sex then you can take one now.
Cramps can be a sign that your about to get your period though. All i can say is either wait another week or take a test.
Dont go by your symptoms though bcuz it could be your mind tricking you to thinkin you are since your stressing about it. Good luck.
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no i mean its 3-4 weeks but i have an irragative period an now my ex doesnt want anything to do with me so if i am pergo he dont want it an im 14 what do i do?
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If you havent had a period that long then you should take a test. I would..
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