Normal bleeding during Pregnancy ? Scared , desperate for help please!

[michelle0960]

I'm not sure I am pregnant, but it is pretty obvious. Me and my boyfriend have had unprotected sex over 40 times, and each time he came inside of me with the exception of a few. Please do not judge me, we did not have sex with the pure intentions of concieving a child. I was previously on birth control, and I was under the impression that it lasts for a year when you are done taking it, but I was wrong. With that being said, I know it is not possible to have an actual "period" during pregnancy. But I have bleeding during the times my periods are due. The first month the period was rather light, with no cramping. However, the second month (month that just passed) was rather heavy in the beginning with some cramping but then became light out of no where. My bleeding is now over and I still have most of the early common pregnancy symptoms and abdominal cramping. Is this normal? I'm almost positive I am pregnant because of the signs and the "just pregnant" feeling, I just do not know what to do because of the bleeding and I am concerned for the health of my child. Please do not leave ignorant replies or comments, I am not asking for you approval or judgement. I'm aware of the consequences of my mistakes. I told my mother about the bleeding and she did not say much because she does not like talking about it, so I am very scared.

[michelle0960]

Thank you so much . . both you and jrobertsons comments helped me so much. Thanks for your help, its much appreciated :) Have a blessed night.

[amy8702]

I agree with jrobertson hun. I'm sorry your Mom wasn't able to help you and I'm glad you found this site. Many early pregnancy symptoms mimic PMS symptoms. And since stopping your birth control, you period may be a little messed up. Like jrobertson said, just see an OB/GYN and they'll be able to run the appropriate tests for you to find out what's going on. Best wishes

[michelle0960]

I have read all of your comments..I just want to say thank you so much. You did not judge me and seem very understanding. Thank you for your advice, and I will do what you said. You have made my day, night , week . . that helped me so much. God bless, Thank you so much :)

[jrobertson20]

Ok I just posted on another post of yours before I saw this one.  I did not know you already attempted talking to your mother.  Your bleeding could be abnormal because of taking the birth control.  Did you restart it again?  I do understand that you did not intend to become pregnant but please understand that even being on birth control is not 100% at preventing pregnancy.  My mother-in-law got pregnant with my husband while on birth control at a young age.  If you haven't I would make an appointment with a GYN doctor and discuss birth control in depth.  Also you need to watch out for STD's.  What you do now affects your future.  I'm not judging just trying to help you stay safe.  Good luck hun.