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Possible Pregnancy?
Hello, I have a question about the possibility of pregnancy in a certain situation. I know this is pretty ridiculous and I've already done research on the subject but I can't get my mind off of it so here goes...
The other night my girlfriend and I were fooling around in my car. I gave her oral sex and fingered her for a short time until we decided to stop and she put on her underwear. When her panties were on she gave me oral sex and I ended up ejaculating on my stomach while she masturbated me. We quickly cleaned up and she wiped her hand off on a napkin and we left. Now I know this question has been asked a thousand times and I have read many different responses, but what are the chances that she could get pregnant if she decided to touch herself shortly after, using the hand that she had wiped semen off of? I really don't think she would do that, and I was trying to be as cautious as possible (making her put on her panties before she touched me), but should I be worried that she could be pregnant if she did? What about if she just touched the outside of her underwear and got semen on them? My research tells me that although sperm does not immediately die when touching the air, the dryness of air does not present a suitable living environment for the cells, and thus sperm cannot survive long when exposed to it. Also, I assume that wiping off semen on a napkin would assist in drying out and killing sperm cells as well. Logic tells me that it is almost impossible to get pregnant even if she did touch herself afterward, but I would like to hear it from someone else. She had just finished menstruating the day before that night by the way. Thanks
The other night my girlfriend and I were fooling around in my car. I gave her oral sex and fingered her for a short time until we decided to stop and she put on her underwear. When her panties were on she gave me oral sex and I ended up ejaculating on my stomach while she masturbated me. We quickly cleaned up and she wiped her hand off on a napkin and we left. Now I know this question has been asked a thousand times and I have read many different responses, but what are the chances that she could get pregnant if she decided to touch herself shortly after, using the hand that she had wiped semen off of? I really don't think she would do that, and I was trying to be as cautious as possible (making her put on her panties before she touched me), but should I be worried that she could be pregnant if she did? What about if she just touched the outside of her underwear and got semen on them? My research tells me that although sperm does not immediately die when touching the air, the dryness of air does not present a suitable living environment for the cells, and thus sperm cannot survive long when exposed to it. Also, I assume that wiping off semen on a napkin would assist in drying out and killing sperm cells as well. Logic tells me that it is almost impossible to get pregnant even if she did touch herself afterward, but I would like to hear it from someone else. She had just finished menstruating the day before that night by the way. Thanks
she said pre ejaculate (the clear liquid secreted through the penis during sex) i think shes trying not to give others the wrong impression that someone can not get pregnant during sex if a guy pulls out..thats why she said during sex i think.
because you said "pregnant becuhz you would have had to ejaculate inside her the sperm has to travel to the egg in order to get her pregnant"
which is incorrect in terms of having sex
because you said "pregnant becuhz you would have had to ejaculate inside her the sperm has to travel to the egg in order to get her pregnant"
which is incorrect in terms of having sex
he doesn't have to ejaculate to get her pregnant. pre ejaculate (the clear liquid secreted through the penis during sex) contains sperm as well. not as much as actual semen but it's still there.
idk about the sperm dieng and as soon as it hits the air part but i do knw she cnt get pregnant becuhz you would have had to ejaculate inside her the sperm has to travel to the egg in order to get her pregnant and she has to be ovulating becuhz thats when the egg dropps in order to get her pregnant ..you have nothing to worry about =)
Is she a virgin? if no,how faithful has she been? Did you ever suspect any cheat? this is a hard truth.
am a living example of a situation which produced a beautiful daughter from no sex.
but be satisfied within yourself before you accept it.
you are the only person that could take the hard decision,think deep
am a living example of a situation which produced a beautiful daughter from no sex.
but be satisfied within yourself before you accept it.
you are the only person that could take the hard decision,think deep
Is she a virgin? if no,how faithful has she been? Did you ever suspect any cheat? this is a hard truth.
am a living example of a situation which produced a beautiful daughter from no sex.
but be satisfied within yourself before you accept it.
you are only person to take the hard decision,think deep
am a living example of a situation which produced a beautiful daughter from no sex.
but be satisfied within yourself before you accept it.
you are only person to take the hard decision,think deep
shes not pregnant
you dont even know if she fingered herself after or even washed her hands when she got home
you have nothing to worry about
you dont even know if she fingered herself after or even washed her hands when she got home
you have nothing to worry about
if you wiped off your hand you have nothing to worry about. IF her period is late wait 3-7 days and ask her to take an hpt. if that's negative and she still hasn't gotten her period she should go to the doctor for an exam and blood test. there could be something wrong medically that needs treated.
Anyone else have an opinion? I'm really working myself up over this and I could use a reality check...
I always try to be as careful as possible (which is why I made her put her underwear on and I didn't touch her after I touched myself) but I always seem to think about some crazy situation where things that have the smallest chances of happening end up happening to me haha. I guess I'm just a paranoid person when it comes to this sort of thing, which is why we have agreed to hold off for now. Any more advice or information would be greatly appreciated. Thanks a lot.
No, we didn't do anything like that. In fact, it wasn't even my hand because I never touched her after that. The only thing I remember is that she wiped her hand off on a napkin (her hand probably didn't have much semen on it anyway) and then we left, so I don't know if she touched herself afterward or not. I'm thinking that she didn't because she already had her underwear on and she's just not that type of girl. Also, she stayed at my house for about an hour after that but again, I don't exactly know where her hand went during any of that time. I know it's highly unlikely, but I've read about people who have had it happen to them, so I can't take my mind off it. Thanks for your input though I really appreciate it.
you did not have sex. or ejaculate in your hand and then insert it into her..it sounds like you also wiped your hand.
also she finished her period the day before...thats not typically at all when a woman would have been ovulating
also she finished her period the day before...thats not typically at all when a woman would have been ovulating
it all depends on the situation and what the temperatures are like, the air is like...it can live for a few minutes up to a few hours.
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