what're my chances?

[309095297]

my boyfriend barely ever use condoms and i'm not on the pill.
i know it's stupid, and i'm getting it (the pill) soon.
we always make sure he never comes close to finishing though, but i've become worried about precum and the sperm in it. is/was anyone in the same situation as i am? i could use some advice.

[Clysta]

What do you mean not been in your situation. I HAVE been pregnant, I HAVE had unprotected sex with my husband, and yes I HAVE thought I was pregnant due to it. I'm sorry I don't write out my entire sexual life but I do know exactly what I'm taking about and have been in that same situation. You asked for advice and I gave it. The only difference is I'm prepared for what sex will do and old enough to handle it. Are you?

[309095297]

thank you very much for your input, but i'm looking for people who are/were actually in the same situation as i am, not people who dish out advice about problems they have no experience with to anyone who will listen.

[Clysta]

Yes pregnancy is possible and unless you're wanting to get yourself pregnant you need to be taking better precautions. It makes little difference if he doesn't ejaculate or how long it goes on for. Even when you get on birth control pills you still have to use condoms for at least a month afterward. It needs time to become effective and you should always be using two forms of birth control at all times anyways.

[LittleMommyWannaBe]

I'm in the same boat. My bf and I haven't been using condoms lately and though he NEVER has finished "in there" I've been seriously thinking that I may be pregnant this time around. If you don't want to use the pill or condoms, there are some pretty decent spermacides out there. VCF is pretty decent! Please keep me posted, I've been dying for some support too!