Someone was telling me about therapists that their sole role is to improve one's sex life. Have you ever heard of that? Guess a lot of folks have issues ranging from psychological to physical that get in the way. Would you ever consider working with one? I figure if it improves things even a little, might be worth it?
I've read that this issue can be categorized as psychosomatic or all in your head but you know, that doesn't answer your question, right? Here is a long post of others in the same boat as you. https://
www.medhelp.org/posts/Urology/loss-of-sensation---cant-reach-orgasm/show/287164 What about during masturbation? Able to reach orgasm? And it looks like many people have had success with Viagra. Something you'd consider?