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Ejaculating but feeling no orgasm

Hello, I am a perfectly healthy and fine 16 year old boy. I have never had sex so the chances of this being an STD are ruled out. I'm not sure why this happens but I can feel all of the pleasure of masturbation up until ejaculation where feeling stops and I don't feel an orgasm at all but I still ejaculate. This has been happening every single time I've masturbated for about the past two or three months. I have no clue what's happening, what is wrong with me? Any ideas?
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I believe i may no the reason to this. I also have this issue. It is not like i dont feel at all just dont think i am feeling the right level of orgasm. The build up is there and when i release there is some pleasurable feeling but does not last through out the duration of the ejaculation which can be frustrating.

I had hypospadias surgery as a child and i believe there must have been some nerve damage. Anyone experiencing something similar should investigate if they had hypospadias surgery as a child. This would no doubt involve nerve damage which could mean a disconnect. I have sex drive, erection, ejaculation but the orgasm is not full seems like its like 30% - 40% of the required intensity.

My question is can nerve damage be repaired? Also i fear the lack of powerful orgasm may make me get tired of sex and affect my relationship. Can anyone relate?
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I am 14 years old and I'm having the same problem.
It started like 3 months ago and since then I had no feeling when I ejaculate I even tried not faping for a week but It didn't help.
It also started to affect me emotionly I started feeling less emotions and found it more difficult to talk to people even my family! I did have anxiety and social problems before but now I don't feel anything
I feel numb when I talk to people like I'm emotionless or something
I don't know if it's depression or something else. I talked to my mom about it and she signed me up to a psycholigist but I don't known if that will help.
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Try some quercetin I know it works . also read up on prostadenia ,  the urologist will be a waist of time if it is prostadenia. Get a book called the Yeast connection and be prepared to stop eating yeast( bread pasta etc) sugar dairy ..  not much left I know buy do it for 6 months. You may not have nerve damage but your nerves are inflamed and this is cutting out your orgasm sensation.  Read up on " leaky gut" and how to fix it, this is the root of the problem, and read up on Candida Albicannus . Read the book.
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I think one sort of reason could for ejaculation without orgasm be that body isn't actually turned up enough, there's no the normal physiological reactions, or even psychological reactions. Do the heart start to race faster? Do you sweat? Do the breath really accelerates? Do you really feel horny after all? If no, i doubt you could achieve the orgasm. Probably sort of premature ejaculation, happen before rest of the body is triggered to orgasm. Something interference the overall process, what could it be? Probably multiple options. Perhaps one could be just anxious/stressed/tensed. Try to relax and enjoy, "follow the pleasure and the pleasure will come". Don't think too much. However. If there's no pleasure to follow, it's then problematic. Could be also hormonal problem for reason or another.
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hi guys. I'm a 59 year old male and I have had this for many years. its very depressing and doctors cant get it into their head that climax and ejaculation are not the same thing. I get no pleasure from ejaculating. more feeling when I pee probably. I do have anxiety and self confidence issues but I really want to get the old pleasure back. any one with any ideas please help. ive tried many things all with no success. vitamins, treatments, examinations, acupuncture, chiropractor, . I also have proctalgia fugax which the so called experts think is not related. I'm currently seeing a psychotherapist who believes its just about ''letting go'' during sex. well I can tell you there isn't much I haven't tried, in order to get a fulfilling orgasm. I miss it terribly and it is making me ever more sad and depressed
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Yeah , I may know why, may know why..read a book called the Yeast connection, it could be that your prostate is inflamed and causing your pleasure switch to throw off. The inflammation is a result of Candida Albicanus running amuck and setting up shop in your bodies organs possibly your prostate. Albi belongs in your gut but if your gut leaks ... let's just say it may be time to go to war on fungus , quit sugar and yeast in your diet, eat more garlic and cucurmin, get on and stay on some acidifullus, try a weeks worth of quercetin and watch the switch stay on for once. It's a long haul 6 months or more. Oh and get some Candi-gone from Renew life , remember to drink lots and take milk thistle while your on it. I'm 54 years old and remember that when I was 25 I told the arthritis specialist that I had pain in my joint ..he couldn't believe I meant my joint .Ive dealt with this on and off for 30 yrs and can tell you for me it's all about what I learnt reading the book, it helped me beat it and yeah it's back again only because I like beer and have a sweet tooth and I love coffee but coffee gets me the morning after with a sore back .
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I have the same problem, and I'm now 40, was on pain killers for yrs but have been taking suboxin for the last yr and had no problems with it and been taking Cymbalta now for yrs and it never gave me a problem ether. The pain killers did mess with my sex drive a lot but have been off them for a yr now. However this is a new problem for me . never had a problem jacking off before but the last couple of weeks - I start cuming before I'm done and no orgasm , tonight we just had sex and same thing. I just started taking vitamin B12 a couple of weeks ago and I take hair vitamins also never thought something like that could cause it so I was glad to read that other answer ! I guess I will quite taking them and see. As for my sex drive in general I wish there was more they could do. And I now take 1 ml of testosterone every two weeks but it doesn't seem to help much, my biggest problem is staying hard and I am a heavy smoker since 14 yrs of age which I think has a lot to do with some of my problems.I'm hoaping to quit soon.anyway as for the one issue your talking about, I'm not sure why it's happening but I think I will try to stop taking my vitamins and see and then again it could just be stress cause I have had a lot on my mind for quite a while now, if anyone has any ideas let me know. PS I've never heard of that Chinese thing that other guy was talking about.
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The key is blood flow. There is an Asian custom called milking which causes more blood to flow to the tip. By holding its shape the nerves won't;t get pinched. You see ladies in films smacking their clits for the same reason. You can 'hold your stay' by engaging the **** sensation while you feel ejaculation coming on. Kegel muscle relaxing and tensing can bring on the buildup of sensation back, while you hone the experience.
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