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My boyfriend says my vagina is too tight what can I do?

Okay, so my boyfriend and I have been dating for a year now. Our sex life is great, but he complains about it being too tight when he tries to get it in. I don't understand because not being wet enough is not the problem and after its in everything is fine. Its just on the first try its always very tight. I have heard there's exercises and ways to loosen it but no matter what I do it gets tight again. I am a tiny girl so im afraid that there's nothing I could really do.... help?
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You might be able to stretch yourself out with a series of dildos.  Start with one that's just a bit of a stretch, and use it to masturbate.  You could probably even insert one and then watch tv or something and relax.  When you get to the point where that one is no longer so much of a stretch, go up a bit in size.  I'm not sure how long it will take, but you can probably loosen yourself up a bit.

The other thing is that if it's not too tight once you get going, you don't need any stretching.  I always need a few seconds after getting it in for my body to adjust, and it can take a few tries to get in in the first place.  Once my body has adjusted, it's fine.  So if that's how you are, all you need is to go slowly at first and then go up to whatever speed you'd like.
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Just take your time.  There is no rushing it.  
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