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What is wrong with me??? Please Help!!
Okay..here goes...I am 24 years old and have a 2 years old daughter. I have a boyfriend right now who I love very much and he adores my child, and I was with my little girls dad for six years before we split up. I would say that I have a very healthy sexual appetite...and I have enjoyed having sex since my first time. I have only had sex with a few people and everytime I was in a relationship with that person. But I have a huge problem!!! I can't ejaculate..I never have before. I have tried masturbating, oral sex, and intercourse but have not been succesful. This is an extremely big deal to me because my boyfriends have always thought I was not attracted to them or that they could not please me. But I do have orgasms...or so I thought. Is this normal or do I have a problem? My current boyfriend and I have been dating for 7 months and I have yet to ejaculate once with him. And I can't remember one time in my previous six year relationship that I came with him either. I am very attracted to my boyfriend and I find myself always wanting to have sex with him. But he will give me oral sex for an hour and I still can't come. This is a serious issue for me and anyone who has any information or maybe could give me some guidence would be greatly appreciated. I would love to hear what anyone has to say about it cause I have talked to friends before and no one else has my problem.
Thank you all so much and hope to hear from everyone soon.
Thank you all so much and hope to hear from everyone soon.
BTW, the female "ejaculation" consists of almost the same fluid that is released from the male prostate. For everyone wondering, sperm does not come from the prostate so OBVIOUSLY women cant produce sperm. If you were thinking about that, i feel kinda bad for ya. ; )
About 10 percent of women can actually do this. It is a secretion that is released from the "female prostate" and Im not too sure of the purpose of it. I do know that I personally only "ejaculate" a very small amount of liquid. I do know of women that secrete more then someone just urinating. It is a strange thing but it isnt possible for all women. At least you like sex; the grass isnt always greener on the other side. Be happy with what you have and if someone has an issue with it, they arent the one for ya. =] Trust me, of all people, I know this for sure! hope this helps.
I think all your boyfriends have been pulling your leg...this female ejaculation phenomenon seems to be so rare that there is no need for either one of you to stress about it. As long as you have fun. If you have a bunch of orgasms in a short time span, there can be a phenomenon like that, but it is rather like super-lubrication that comes out of all "pores" down there. It really is not urine or anything that would resemble a male projectile ejaculation. You can experiment with masturbation and see if it happens. Come to think of it, maybe some women do pee on their partners because the modern male learned that the famous G-spot is half a finger-length behind the entrance of the vagina. As far as I am concerned that`s just the urethra and if one rubs this long enough it may get numb and expell urine. Just a theory. I believe Mr. Grafenberg (?) was wrong about the location. It is much further towards the cervix. I had to mention that as they say the G-spot triggers the female "ejaculation". So just enjoy whatever you do and don`t let your boyfriend read Cosmopolitan and the like...
I know what she is talking about. With a G-Spot orgasm a woman "ejaculates" so to say. But it is a release from the bladder. The first time this happened to me I was pregnant and I thought my water broke!
Your bf must read Penthouse or other **** like that, a lot of docs do not agree that female ejaculation exists. If you are feeling satisfied and having an orgasm why this obsession?
i was told by a dr friend that women dont ejaculate, but it is the release of the bladder.
I'll say what the others have said - I can't understand what you're talking about.
Men ejaculate.
Women often "lubricate" a little during orgasm, but it's not like an ejaculation that men have, it's more lubrication.
You say you have orgasms, but then go on to say you can't "come".
Sorry to be so demanding of information, but I really can't tell what you mean.
Best wishes.
Men ejaculate.
Women often "lubricate" a little during orgasm, but it's not like an ejaculation that men have, it's more lubrication.
You say you have orgasms, but then go on to say you can't "come".
Sorry to be so demanding of information, but I really can't tell what you mean.
Best wishes.
If you are able to have an orgasm, then I wouldn't worry too much. To my knowledge, it uncommon for a woman to be able to ejacualte...i'll admit that i'm not exactly sure what you mean when you refer to "ejaculating," but if i think i know what you're referring to, then i can say it's not unusual and in fact highly uncommon for a woman to ejaculate. like previous poster said, can you clarify a little bit so we know what you mean.
you say you do have orgasms, but you do not ejaculate. I'm a bit confused... can you clarify this a little further?
I have researched alot about this and I have read alot about female ejaculation. And all my boyfriends have said that I am the only girl they have been with that does not come when she orgasms. I do have a lot of lubercation present when I get aroused. Actually I get very very wet...but that is all though. And nothing else really happens after that. When ever we begin having sex I am very lubercated and rarely have to use any type of lubercation. But with all the reading I have done on this subject I was under the impression that I am missing out on something that everyone does. And like I said I have talked to friends and they all seem to have different orgasms than me. I hope this clears up any confusion for anyone and any thing else anyone can tell me would be awesome. Thanks
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