Hey girl! No need to worry. It sounds like you have a UTI. I've had plenty. If you didn't know, sex is a huge factor in female UTIs. When you have sex, bacteria get pushed into your urethra. And unless you pee after sex, that bacteria had no way out and has caused you a urinary track infection. UTIs make you feel like you have to pee 24/7 even when you don't. And yes it hurts when you pee very much. The only way to get rid of it is anabiotic's. UTIs can become very serious if not taken care of. Try to drink water and cranberry juice but also go to the clinic and get put on some anabiotic's. Hope this helps. And remember ALWAYS pee after sex❤️
From what you have described, I'm thinking - allergic to the condom? His hands not being clean when he fingered you? Vaginal irritation even if you didn't get an infection?