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So they say i am pregnant o.o

I am so confused! I went to the clinic because I thought I had an infection but it was nothing she just said I was pregnant! My ex hubby and I tried for 4 yrs to conceive and it never happened. I had pcos. Was on bc but quit taking it about 4 months ago. My cycles have never been normal I usually only get 3-4 cycles per year and they were so painful I was taking the pill to make them not come on. On March 8th I bled for a few hours but that was it then on June 13th is when she said the test was +. So she is basing it on the one day I bled which would make me 14 weeks today. I don't think this is accurate though. I have already gained 8 lbs! My breasts are huge and sore but not too sore and I just don't see how I can be this far along when the tests all keep showing an extremely faint line, if I am 14 weeks shouldn't the line be dark by now? My first appointment is this Wed but I do not know if they will do an ultrasound yet. I never thought I could get pregnant so I am in shock and worried because I am a smoker, I quit when I found out but what about the 3 mos (if accurate) that I did not know I was "with child" and was smoking about a pack a day. Could this have harmed the baby? When can I know the sex? If I am 14 weeks along then that means I never got any morning sickness, is this normal? Sorry for the mil questions!
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40 % of all fertility issues are because of the male.
I don't think that going by your last period date would be very accurate if you only had a few a year, who knows when you ovualted. I would ask for a ultrasound asap for dating purposes. Don't stress about all the stuff you have done before you found out, women never use to change their lifestyle, and i've heard some Dr say its better not to quit cold turkey. Good luck!
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ok......

its not healthy at all to smoke during a pregnancy. yes women have done it (especially many years ago) and thats why babies came out small and thin.

not all women get a line down their stomach

you usually will find out around your 20week ultrasound

not all woemn get morning sickness
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